I've been married to my husband for 3 years. I've been hiding my fetish that I have had since early puberty. Recently I've been fighting myself on whether to tell him because I find myself unable to climax unless fantasising about it. I've come to the conclusion that for me, personally, secretly fantasising about it when we're making love is unfair to him and myself. I'm scared he will think I'm a little psycho, to be honest. I'm scared he'll not want to indulge my fetish because he thinks it's weird. What should I do?
Update: It is the stomach/navel area. I only would want him to stimulate mine just by licking, messaging or touching. Nothing extreme.