I've been with this guy for some time now and I lost my virginity to him. We have sex but not regularly. He's busy and I'm busy so out schedules sometime doesn't work but we make the best of it. The reason why I'm saying that is to say sex still hurts for me. Well the entering part after that I can tolerate it. We recently had sex sideways, and the arch in my back must've turned him on because he said arch it some more he's about to cum. He cums quickly all the time I don't know if that's good or bad but afterwards we cuddled, watched a movie, and then fell asleep. When we woke up he asked me if I ever watched porn I said no why and he tells me I should watch and learn somethings and then he kissed me. I'm not sure if I should be offended or what. I took it as I'm not pleasing him. I'm not good at giving head even though I try my best I know I'm not good because he normally stops me and then gives me oral. My question is what are some things I can do to blow him away the next time we had sex. I'm shy but I was thinking of being more verbal while we're making out first like asking him what he wants and tell him to show me or pretty much talk step by step what it is I'm going to do or is that too much? Any oral tips or sex position tips of any sexual tips that would surprise him?