Also, what is a high number? I feel like I have had a lot of partners. Most of them were guys I was in a monogamous relationship with. I just feel really guilty about my past and I don't know how it is going to effect my current relationship. I was going through a lot of mental problems during my more promiscuous days and I wasn't getting help. Now that I'm in treatment I'm much better, but I can't get over the fact that I was a slut. I was never that type of girl. I was always good, and now I just feel disgusting even years after everything happened.
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8 is the average. a former girlfriend was 15, two others 30+. you know what they all had in common? clinical mental health issues. when you start to get into the double digits before 30, there is a deeper issue. in my opinion, your number should be about one per year you have been active, or less. more than that means you can't commit to much. in my opinion1