A balance between the two is best. You ideally want somebody who isn't afraid to express their interests, but is also interested in exploration. Most girls start off as the second of your two options.
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Please, for the love of God, TELL me! Sex is a skill; nothing improves it faster than feedback. The more immediate the better. Ideally, while it's happening.I remember going down on a woman for an hour and a half, before exhaustion set in. When I asked her about it, she said "Oh, that's nasty. I only tolerated it because you seemed into it." Needless to say, I didn't go back to THAT well again.
Took the words right out of my head.
I know she's got some preferences, and it's a negative for communication if she isn't willing to express them, so, yes, I definitely want to know what they are. Partners should always talk about this sort of thing. I want her to enjoy sex as much as possible, and that means me knowing what she likes best.
Well that would depend on what the woman had strong sexual preferences for. If they don't align with my own then I would rather her just go with me instead of voicing them. If they do align, then I want her to express them and we can try new things or make sure that sex is exactly how we like it, no guesswork. It's a win/win situation that way.
I'd go with the option A in the time it takes for light to travel an inch.*Looks at poll results*The fu-? What guy in his right mind wants an option B?What girl worth her own salt wants to be an option B?Ya know, maybe Hitler was onto something..
I don't mind if a woman knows what she likes and isn't afraid to ask for it. I'm there for her pleasure also not just mine. But it has to be both ways. I have a couple of things I enjoy and she should be willing to do those as well.
Neither. I want her to express hers and go along with mine.If I don't mind hers I might go along with those myself.
That's a damn good question. In a perfect world she likes what I like and Needs me to give it to her. However, there's nothing worse than a female who won't give head or try something fun.
I prefer a mix.. that sex express her sexual preferences, and that she is open to exploring other sexual thing with me.
I've dated both and I can work with either, or any situation in between.
Better to explore and express them than being quiet and hope everybody will understand, sorry we can read your mind
( c) a women that does not ask me how much i make as soon as i meet her. Almost anything else is a go.
how much do you make?
Don't think extremes in both directions are preferable
A balance between both.
My girlfriend is indifferent, I hate that
why are you with her?
Non sexually she is perfect. Sexually she is practically a virgin in every sense of the word
so she is a good friend.
Hmmmm probably. But I'll give it another go before I go another way.
It's nice to know what gets her juices flowing.
Yeah it's nice when a girl knows what she wants
A girl that has at least half a brain
Hopefully they work well with mine.
What if her preferences are not something I would like? I rather have someone open minded than strong preferences and also communicate what she likes too
Either can work. Both beat low drive.
I like a girl who has strong sexual preferences and expresses them, AND they are similar to mine.
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