Guys, does watching porn make you feel less attracted to your SO?

Does watching porn or looking at other girls with better bodies make you lose attraction towards your current partner?

I’m just curious, because recently my husband made comment about me getting breast implants.

Also, I’ve been reduced to watch porn myself, since his concerns are never to satisfy me sexually, and I’ve noticed the difference between the male talents and my husband and it’s a bit of a turn off.

I’ve already told him I desire more sex and he said that I need to put in more effort in dressing sexier. I did that but it didn’t make things better for him for long.

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  • "Also, I’ve been reduced to watch porn myself, since his concerns are never to satisfy me sexually,"

    That's a bigger issue.

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    • You beat me to it. This seems like a bigger issue, one not nessesarally porn related.

    • I know but I think I’m tired of trying.

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What Guys Said 19

  • I met a girl. I quit watching porn. She is my porn. The thought of internet porn makes me uneasy ever since meeting my current girl. I can not think of any other woman except for her in that way.

    Porn is unhealthy.

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    • Is it a bad sign if he never stopped looking at it? I don’t know if he would watch porn when we started dating, he may not even watch it now, but I do know for certain he saw girls naked on reddit. And lately he’s been commenting and making fun of girls that we know of being slutty on Instagram.

  • Do you learn driving from "Fast n Furious"?

    If not why should you learn sex from porn?

    You may watch, but remember to treat all actors as that: ACTORS. Their concern is just the box office.

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  • I tend to believe that. Your husband is proof I think. It's like smoking... If you could do it in moderation (with smoking, you can't) it would be ok. But because you either smoke or you don't, and porn is the same, you lose control. Smokers who say they are "cutting down" are full of shit and are fooling themselves. You quit or you continue. Period

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  • Porn is not a good thing and I recommend anyone who watches it to quit it. I consider it cheating since it is looking at other women. I also would recoemdn saving sex for marriage.

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  • I don't think that at all. I know I have a higher sex drive then my girlfriend. We have sex about 2 to 3 times a week. Porn just keeps my sexual needs tended to then trying to go find someone to cheat on with.

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  • Absolutely not. I watch porn regularly, but it's just fake fantasy, and that's why I watch it. It's not indicative of what I want in real life nor does it affect how I feel about my partner.

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  • no it doesn't but to me its kind of strange that i am getting attracted and turned on by other girls that are not my girlfriend.

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  • Makes me feel like I got a small dick even though I'm considered above average lmao. All the male talent is rocking like 9 inches.

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  • I believe it would be healthier if neither of you watch pornography
    If you need help returning the spark try role-playing in the bedroom or something

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  • No, it doesn't.

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  • I believe it is less with most men.

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  • Porn is boring. My SO is 100 times more arousing.

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  • Yeah it does.

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  • on scale of 10
    7 they do

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  • Not at all.

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  • This girl I like smiled at me... better than porn.

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  • All honeymoons eventually wear off. It is inevitable but it doesn't have to be sad. Much depends on the depth and quality of the emotional and spiritual connections. If sex is all there is …

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  • Nah. But it does make me wanna be a complete freak to my spouse.

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  • I don’t think it makes you less attracted to your so. It’s just a release if you have sexual desires that your partner isn’t in to in a way that isn’t actively seeking out a real person to fulfil those desires.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Men are liars when they say they don't compare internet nudes/pornography to their significant others... my husband recently said that I should shave completely bald playful like, and low and behold I found that he has been watching porn. With that being said, how in hell is 30-40 year old woman supposed to compete with a MAYBE, 18 year old? BECAUSE, yes they DO compare and judge.

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