Do guys prefer porn over sex?

My boyfriend never really hits me up he says he loves doing it with me but I secretly no he watches porn almost daily. He knows he can ask me and 99% of the time I’m up for it, other than this he is a great boyfriend I have no doubt he loves me but is porn just easier or what is it?

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  • Do you ever initiate first? If not that might be why, it's not very fun having to be the one asking for it always. It kinda makes you feel like you are forcing someone to something and that they don't want you.

    Porn addiction is a thing and maybe he has a problem with it. Masturbating can really become an addiction, I know that from myself. It's just a stress relief and I think I masturbate a lot because of feeling depressed too. It's a fast, no effort, reward.

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    • I always instigate that’s what I’m getting sick of... if I don’t we can go weeks I’m up to week 2 now... just waiting for him to ask. We’ve spoke about it I told him it turns me on more if he instigates it... still nothing but a browser full of downloads from the last two weeks

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    • Haha yer I just got... no I don’t... and now loud walking around the house and silent treatment. Oh well

    • Well silent treatment doesn't help at all. If you want to solve it, you need to tell him what is bothering you. Any other way will just make everything worse.

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  • In general I'd say guys don't prefer porn. I can't speak for your boyfriend but most men would rather have a partner than fly solo. If there is a barrier communication might be the best way to break it down.

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  • Porn also offers way more possibilities to live out sexual fantasies or see all kinds of different sex.

    So your boyfriend might love you and likes to have sex with you, it's just that porn offers endless possibilities which would be impossible for you to fulfill.

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  • I don't understand why anyone would prefer porn to sex.

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  • Maybe he's stressed or tired and just wants to rub one out and go to sleep. For sex he's probably have to shower get dressed listen to you not that your not worth it but he may just be tired

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  • Porn is easier and will show every fantasy anyone could ask for.
    However, he needs to get away from it and refocus on you.
    It can be addictive.

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  • He might be looking for inspiration to spice up your sex life

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  • Ask him if he knows half the chicks in porn are secretly trans.

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  • Some. I do not like porn. Sex is much better for me.

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  • Hell nah

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  • neverrrr I love pussy

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  • If sex i daily, then not.

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  • Go watch Don Jon

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  • Hell no

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  • Sex anyday!

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  • It depends. I get bored and frustrated with sex because my SO and I are sexual opposites. I want to be dominated (femdom), have fetishes and up for anything whereas she is conservative. Maybe he wants to try new things or for you to initiate it? Maybe sexual teasing may be an option to get him horny for you rather than porn?

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