So, honestly. What is the youngest you'd have sex with and/or date if there were no legal limits?
- Whatever is legal, 12 or younger even
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Well, first of all I should say that sex and dating are two completely different things for me.
So, let's first talk about sex.
I guess the youngest I would go - provided it was legal and happened with her explicit consent - would be around 14-15. If she was 15, I would feel pretty comfortable about it. If she was 14, I'd probably have some moral qualms but depending on the situation, I'd still do it. Somehow, 14 is like an important border to me. I would never go below that.
Dating is a completely different matter. When I date a girl, I am looking for someone that can talk to me on an eye-level. By that I mean a woman who roughly stands at a similar point in her life. For example I wouldn't want to date a girl who wants to party every weekend because I'm not at that age anymore. I also want a woman who is about as mature as me. So... the lowest I would go for a serious relationship would be about 25, which is 5 years younger than me. My wife is actually only 9 months younger than me and I think that's pretty cool.
The upper limit for dating would be about 32, maybe 33, so 2-3 years older than me.
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I'm concerned with 2 things: how mature she (emotionally and physically) and how prepared she is to handle an unwanted pregnancy (financially, prudently, and emotionally)
Very few women below the age of around 30 would be suitable.
I can't read that map on my phone but did I read (with squinted 50 year old eyes) the lowest limit is 12? How many 12 year Olds can handle an unwanted pregnancy? Does anyone SERIOUSLY think a 12-year-old could raise a child?
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20 is probably the youngest I would date or have sex with. Even guys who are of a legal age (I am speaking about those who are 18-19) I wouldn't be interested in because they would be in a totally different mindset from me. I'm out of college and working full-time, I would want someone who is in a similar stage of life
Note: Just to clarify, I don't have casual sex so anyone I'm having sex with, I would be in a relationship with.