What do you think about guys who want to take it slow?

A guy who wants to take things slow, im referring to sex, they say sex= a type of commitment.. for example you been talking for a month your ready for sex and he isn't..
  • Be patient
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  • Move on
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  • Voice your opinion and risk getting rejected.
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  • Sounds a bit odd for a guy to reject it. He might have anxiety about it. Is he a virgin?

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    • 7d

      No he's been divorced for 18 months and says he hasn't been with anyone since his wife

Most Helpful Girl

  • wow, one month is "enough time?" for me, it is at least 9 months. meaning (he has to propose first). what is more important to you? physical intimacy, or emotional intimacy? do you love him? because if you did, you would wait a helluva lot longer than one month to be intimate with him.

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    • Well in todays time.. waiting a month isn't the norm.. most people are hookin up in a matter of dates.

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    • 4d

      True that! every school kid thinks they are gonna be the shit. Reality ain't so kind

    • 4d

      i never said i expected the men to be virgins. nvm.

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What Guys Said 6

  • People who overvalue sex tend to be shit at it and make it really cringy.

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    • 7d

      What on earth does that mean.. u so did not answer the?

    • 7d

      I don't think highly of those guys.

      That answers you, right?

    • 7d

      Ok yea i just thought u were saying by wanting sex makes u shitty. But yea i gotcha now

  • The longer you wait, the better. Unless you just want something casual rather than a relationship.

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  • You must always be able to speed up at any time:)

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    • 7d

      What do u mean

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    • 6d

      im suspicious that he has another woman at his place. I advice you to be careful.

    • 4d

      Im just about 100% sure thats not the reason im beginning to think he's like really uptight n a tad weird.. think ima call things off

  • He's gonna be shit. Move on

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    • 7d

      Can u elaborate. please

  • Be patient..

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  • "Talking"? How much face time (in person)?

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    • 7d

      Well we know each other a little bit from high school we have been on like 4 dates.. we dont get to see each other much cuz he works n spends all his free time with his kid.. so i try to go out of my way to see him but i dunno.. just getting tired of boys saying they dont want commitment..

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    • 6d

      N whats mgtow

    • 6d

      ltr = long-term relationship
      mgtow = men going their own way (it's a movement)

What Girls Said 2

  • Me and my boyfriend are waiting till marriage. I would not have wanted it any other way ❤ so patience definitely.

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    • 6d

      oh, so it is possible to wait until marriage? i lost a bit hope for a while there. i want to wait till marriage too, but don't know if there are any guys who would wait around that long.

    • 6d

      There are guys like that out there but they tend to be religious. So your best bet is to date religious guys. Xx

  • Waiting is nice. But if you can’t wait then just tell him.

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