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You have tried talking to different guys? Because I don't do that (sex matters, period. In fact I find it rather disturbing that their are so many women out their who would let a guy inside of them that under any other cirucumstances wouldn't even let in their own home. In fact even the guys doing this is disgusting to me because they are selling themselves for sex, they are willing to let women do nothing but exist and are willing to pay them, date them, do things for them and the only thing they get back is sex. . . some times. . . if she feels like it. In both scenarios they are under selling themselves, its messed up.). Which of course means nothing that I don't do that, but also my friends don't do that. I don't know what groups you are talking to (honestly in my experience, this behavior is most common in black culture (not all obviously but I have found this behavior is most common with them (and its lauded in their music for some reason))), but I have to wonder what was their culture, because certain cultures produce certain values. I would also ask where are you meeting them? Guys who aggressively approach you are also more then likely after sex as they don't really care if you shoot them down as much as a guy who is genuinely interested because all they are after is sex. So that could be the issue, or where your meeting them (generally guys who want a relationship are not going to be doing the same things that guys who want causal sex are doing. The relationship guys are going to probably be more focused on career, of establishing themselves while the guys who want casual sex are more then likely the type to live in the moment, party etc.)? Don't get me wrong culturally we have gotten really terrible about casual sex, its devalued it and has managed to ruin real connections but to constantly run into those types seems a bit more then coincidence.
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