I care about the relationship with my friend more than I do about this guy but on the other side I hate that I should deny myself something that I would appreciate just because my friend had sex twice with him months ago. I told him about this issue and he said that I shouldn't worry about it because it's not my problem, but I know my friend would hate me. He said he understands and that she doesn't have to find out - he's a really private guy and he keeps things to himself, but I still don't know.
What would you do?
Most Helpful Girl
Ok.. well, I gotta ask, is this girl actually your friend or is she just someone that you hang out with for convenience cuz if she was your friend you would at least give her the benefit of the doubt and tell her what you were doing. Don't be sneaking around your friends. Tell her straight up and deal with it that way.