Why are some guys super aggressive during sex?

This guy that I was hooking up with told me to shut up and take it which kind of threw me off because it legit hurt and I was in pain. Also he was super aggressive I told him I didn’t want to do anything next time he asked.

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  • He's really selfish and inconsiderate and I'm glad you turned him down. You could get injured. Some women like that kind of sex, a lot. Not being one of them is not a problem.

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    • 6d

      I don’t mind rough sex but it was beyond that

    • 6d

      I'm a DOM and am rough but I've never had a woman complain. They brag sometimes about how sore they are in intimate places but no complaints. I stand by my earlier statement.

  • Domination and porn.

    These days many sexual habits are influenced by what they have seen in porn.

    This is especially so when it is a black guy doing a white girl.

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    • 7d

      Porn is fake and those women get paid to pretend to do whatever. Mmm it was actually the opposite though I’m black and he’s white.

    • 6d

      He probably has some master / slave tendencies in him then.

      Also most people <30 don't believe porn is fake.

    • 4d

      Weird type of fetish then.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He obviously doesn’t know how to please. Erm... bye.

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  • I think communication is really important but also a lot of guys watch too much porn and just think that’s what they should do or that you would like it or... I don't know

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  • For a lot of guys who like rough sex its like a dominance thing. They probably aren't happy with themselves and to dish out pain to a female that they think likes it makes them feel more like a man. Compensation for insecurities.

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  • sorry for his behavior but yea you shouldn't do shit with him nomore

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  • He either had a kink for it, thought you were into it or was just an asshole

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  • Lose his number babe.
    Please take care this hook up culture can be really unsafe.

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  • everyone loves rough sex nowadays but you have understand our partners need, he is failed on it, act like an asshole.

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    • 7d

      I like rough sex! But it was overly done to be painful

    • 7d

      yes, that is what he has to understand, rough sex is not only pain. you should kicked his balls out!

  • You should have gotten up & got dress to leave. He was Rude!

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  • I have been with a few guys who were super aggressive in bed.

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  • Because a woman's main purpose is to please men sexually.

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  • Yeah stay away from that creep.

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  • Blame it on porn.

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  • Because they are so horny

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  • Tell him you like it slow. Because some girls like aggressive

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  • Omg thats horrible. What an ass

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