- I want love first and foremost
- I honestly just want sex rn
Most Helpful Guys
For everything that you've been through and mentioned, I really do hope you'll find love and a man who'll treat you with kindness, respect, loyalty and even have a deep passion for you! I can't imagine what it's like to be used over and over again but it must be tiring, especially when it's difficult to know if someone is either for your heart or just to get in your pants. You are a sweet and loving person without a doubt! Let's hope your streak of ex-boyfriend finally comes to a close!
To your question, I've always aimed for love first because it fills your empty heart with happiness and warmth, then having sex with your partner later feels that much more special and sensational as opposed to a friend with benefits or someone to have a flick with. Love over sex at the moment; bring on the hugging, kissing and cuddling <3
Most Helpful Girl
I want good mental and spiritual health. Nurturing my mind and planting positivity in my environment for others to share is what I call love.
That is my priority.
On a side note—I am sorry about your current dissatisfaction. The more you break away from the toxicity, the closer you will be to your fulfillment. I know it must be exhausting to be treated like leech lunch, with everyone taking and taking. You seem like a natural giver. Never give up on that. Somebody in this world needs you. But clearly they are not in the area in which you reside.