Be real... Do you want love rn or do you want to just bust a quick nut?

My phone dry af cause i just dropped so many people this year. Im tired of fake love, fake friends, etc. All those fckin opportunists who try to get close to me because they either want money or they wanna hit. Ask my two exes how they had to wait practically a year plus before they got any pussy. Stop trying to fckin use me. And i spoil friends and fam with gifts and stuff til i get them gold diggin vibes from you. But im so done with people these days. Better come with your own money and/or a pocket pussy cause you ain't gettin shxt from me 🤷 lmao I don't know what im even ranting about anymore. I just want love. 2019 im done being used. Im sick of having my time wasted. Seems like I can't even fall for someone for long because i find out their true intentions. I just want love man. Idgaf if u want both love and sex. The question is asking which do you MAINLY want #FeelFreeToList
  • I want love first and foremost
    Vote A
  • I honestly just want sex rn
    Vote B
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  • For everything that you've been through and mentioned, I really do hope you'll find love and a man who'll treat you with kindness, respect, loyalty and even have a deep passion for you! I can't imagine what it's like to be used over and over again but it must be tiring, especially when it's difficult to know if someone is either for your heart or just to get in your pants. You are a sweet and loving person without a doubt! Let's hope your streak of ex-boyfriend finally comes to a close!

    To your question, I've always aimed for love first because it fills your empty heart with happiness and warmth, then having sex with your partner later feels that much more special and sensational as opposed to a friend with benefits or someone to have a flick with. Love over sex at the moment; bring on the hugging, kissing and cuddling <3

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    • I mean I've only been witj 2 guys but I've fallen for more.. They just never made it past a months love interest. They either wanted sex and left when they ddint get it... Or i just realized i didn't like em like i thought

    • Life can be unpredictable like that but at least you can be better prepared for the next guy! I just hope it won't be anymore than you want it to be 😂

  • It's cool, Desi, it's 2019 and still early... things will get better and the right mate is out there, past failures make you lose hope and sight of things but it's out there trust 😊.

    and as for me I'm in the same boat 😂...
    Be real... Do you want love rn or do you want to just bust a quick nut?

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  • I want good mental and spiritual health. Nurturing my mind and planting positivity in my environment for others to share is what I call love.
    That is my priority.

    On a side note—I am sorry about your current dissatisfaction. The more you break away from the toxicity, the closer you will be to your fulfillment. I know it must be exhausting to be treated like leech lunch, with everyone taking and taking. You seem like a natural giver. Never give up on that. Somebody in this world needs you. But clearly they are not in the area in which you reside.

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  • You have figured this out. But how do you separate the wheat from the chaff? Here's a proposal. Every new relationship has stages of sexuality.
    *Talking stage.
    *Makeout stage.
    *Hand and mouth stage
    *Intercourse stage
    Naturally, each new stage includes previous stages. Here's something to consider. If you like a guy and you are ready for intimacy following making out, provide him easy access, meaning untucked shirt, pleated skirt and ordinary loose panties. If he likes and wants to please you, he will notice the (deniable) green light and explore you above and below, but you do not reciprocate. If he likes you, he will not expect it, at least for a while. If you show you are enjoying his attention, he will want to advance further but notice you are not intending to arouse him (yet). He may naturally advance into giving you oral, uncovered, but not undressed. If he does that still not expecting reciprocation, you may have a keeper. And if he shakes the ground you can be fairly certain he is showing you love through sexual intimacy. I have been there and it was a pleasant surprise for them. A guy who "invests" this way will show you caring and tenderness in non-sexual ways as well.

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  • I feel you girl. I'm tired of fake people promises fake love being used. No one listens only wants you to listen. Tired of fake bosses who just go for popularity and are fake nice or use girly charm to get ahead. In sick of corporations that use you and lose you like a rag just good for a year or two then bye.

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  • whenever i go for a relationship love and commitment is the 100% focus... i dont do hookup's of one night stands, and dont even bother with friends with benefits etc
    I dont knock people who do but i always put out there my intentions and make them clear so they know what is going on
    but not everyone shows teh same respect by being honest about their's

    many just use others and manipulate just so they get what they want then once they have they drop you like a sack of shit

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  • I've never been able to get behind casual sex. I need love. I need to cuddle, which helps form the bond. I need to feel something emotionally. I need to feel safe and comfortable with her. And I'll probably cry too since it's been a long long time since I've last been touched...

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  • Love first and foremost. That's what I've always wanted. Best part is I can prove it, being Christian there'll be no sex before marriage anyway, so I can't just be after sex.

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  • Honestly I want to Nut..
    But since I understand that I don't waste my or other person time foolishly around love and watch or read erotica..

    When I want love that's when I will indulge with someone else

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  • Love. I damn hungering for it. It is so important to me, and I want real and true authentic love.

    One thing I have to say that will be hard to hear. While I absolutely applaud your decision not to be used anymore, as that is a very mature decision, I think it's important to make sure that you do not use a baby to make yourself feel better. To make your heart feel like it matters because you are giving it to someone, and you get over the fear of not having children because you feel you're getting older.

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    • Having a baby is more than happiness for me. Its life. Its love. Its want. Its need. Its goals. Aside from God, its darn near my everything

    • And i domt tjink im too old for kids. I just wanted 2 to 4 kids before 30. All 2 years apart

    • That's my point. You are trying to plan the creation of life based on what you want. It feels to me like you are not letting God take the reins in your life, but trying to dictate how it should go to him

  • Both lol
    When I ask girls if they wanna make out.,. they tell me they want something real

    But then I tell them ya me too but until I find her let’s make out
    ... never works lol 😂

    So it’s like this
    We generally all want something real but 80% is just bust a nut... cause something real is something just right for us and that’s not just anyone

    I guess that’s why lol

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  • I want love. I've never been in the hookup culture.

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  • I dont even know anymore, every time i think I've met someone that i could love i end up hurt or disappointed again and again.

    Sex without love doesn't make me happy, but its better than the pain of lost love.

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  • Well I am an man, and I am not going to pretend that I am emotional. :)

    tvtropes.org/.../ImAManICantHelpIt

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  • Easy fixed just play the gold digger song when they ask “can I borrow $20 I’m low on fuel” and they’ll stop asking I tried it on my stepmom and it worked

    I don't know about the sex part my female friend used to say “I got aids” people would back off but then she got called “a hoe”

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  • I voted B, but neither of those are much of a priority for me right now, tbh. 😅

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  • Yeah, I learned that a long time ago. People just out for they own gain. I keep my circle super small. I know who every truly is, and where what we do. I don’t trust anyone else!

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  • I want love rn, I’m done with the quick hookups etc. I wish I could just find a woman that loves me for being myself, not for my money or bedroom abilities.

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  • Love! I feel that I am love. It feels the best in my heart, nice and warm. Like sunshine! I feel incredibly happy with love~

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    • I do but sadly its not enough. I want someone else to love and i want them to love me

    • Oh, I feel that I understand that. Patience is a hard virtue to practice, but when you don't want fake love true love is definitely worth the wait. I do feel it is pretty fulfilling to be preoccupied with loving myself, to put all my focus into my own life. I feel that I have so much character to build within myself that requires a lot of my own dedication and care to myself, I want to make myself proud. It's so much work, but I feel that I love myself the best.

  • I don't know about love. I've been through a couple really painful breakups recently.
    I am not gonna lie, I am open to the idea of hooking up with a girlfriend.

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  • Yeah, I also wanted real love most of my life.

    People told me I'm a retard who's not owed shit, that I was lazy, that I didn't work on myself no matter if I actually did, years passed, here I am.

    Just fuck it with people.

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  • I want a girlfriend that will love me and love her back but right now I don't know any girl because I traveled abroad for work and I met like only 4 women that are older than me.

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  • Always love rather then bursting nuts... Unless and until you don't love there is no point to go further to Burst nuts that's what I feel...

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  • Who doesn't want love? I definitely want it but it's not easy to find

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  • Love is a waste of time. I speak from experience. The internet became popular from porn! That whole together forever thing passed when even I was a teenager lol

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  • Definitely A, not interested in sex for pleasure :o

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  • Love. But I ain't gettin none. The whole city seems to hate me internally..

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  • I really want love and foremost. We’ll have sex first thing on the wedding night.

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  • I want real love, I want sex to be apart of the real love I have for them

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  • I don't want love or bangin.

    I want companionship

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  • I'm not really interested in either at the moment. But if I had to, I would choose love over sex.

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  • love. screwing around is immoral and self-destructive.

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    • I feel you

    • i heard that there was a baby found behind the bleachers and my old middle school. so many problems result from it every day-sometimes, death

  • I need love.

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  • I answered with sincerity and voted B.

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  • Love right now.

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  • i would like love
    but I do not trust women

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  • Love

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  • Love is a priority

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  • Love

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  • None of the above

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  • I want a nut.

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  • Real love is actually impossible

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  • A quick nut for some time.

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  • I want to make love and bust a nut

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  • I don't know. I just want to get over my ex

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    • I feel you. Im over mine but not over the situation and how my time was wasted. I want him and my first ex to stop haunting my dreams

    • Ah I been there but this one is hard to get over because it was so great until it suddenly stopped

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