Having sex is a great way to feel connected with. Your partner to understand them better plus a great stress relief from the day just pump and jump. So here is the thing if both parties don't feel like sex is important anymore as often as they were having it then I think it's great that both understand each other that well. But if one is wanting sex and the other just says I'm not interested anymore. Then there is a problem cause that will lead the other to either end the relationship or cheat to get what they want. Simply put talked it out and figure out what's best for each other. If you want to try an open relationship that way the other half can still get sex and the one not wanting to put out does not have to worry.
Nah it has to be there. Believe me you feel unattractive when your partner never wants to. Not saying everyone feels that way or it needs to happen a lot but if you aren't getting any in your marriage there is something wrong. It could be a lack of passion, or your partner just isn't into you and is using you as a safe place. (Shelter, food, someone to lean on when they are stressed) These all come with marriage but for me if there is absolutely no sex involved its like not being in a relationship its kind of like being a roomie with a friend.
No, but with a caveat. However, it would depend upon the reason it was sexless. If you love your SO and they love you, then there should be more to your relationship that sex. At some point men will experience a decline or ED for health or medication reasons. Would you leave the one you love for something that is not their fault? When you love them. I would not. You go through things together and determine if the love you have together is enough.
Absolutely! In the past I did long distance relationships where I would go months without seeing or touching my partner: did not bother me. Don't get me wrong, sex is okay. But when you've gone a long time without it, you really don't miss it much.I'm happy just having a partner that's there for me and cares. The sex is just a bonus if it happens.
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Yes because I'm nervous about physical intimacy
I did not expect that from you with all the sex questions you post, don't you really desire it in a way?
Yet you're an influencer in the topic of sexuality
Technically I could but don't want to.
Before marriage yes. I will not have sex before marriage. During marriage no. If we make it to marriage that means this is the woman I want to share everything with, including creating life together. I would not need sex all the time, but enough to have children.
I guess I could, seen as that was the last year of my relationship with an ex girlfriend (of 5 years)But at some point it'd feel more like being brother and sister rather than lovers
In the long run, no. But me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half and we are waiting till marriage. So for now I am good but obviously eventually I want to have sex 😁
No, the point of a relationship is sexual /romantic exclusivity and a partnership. If she is unwilling to have sex with me i'd literally have to give up my sexlife for that decision which doesn't work for me. If you expect exclusivity from me your going to have to do an attempt at satisfying my desires just as ill do my best to satisfy yours.
Important nuance here, my opinion was about the girl not wanting to have sex with me. If she is unable for a long period of time due to distance, medical issues, etc that is of course completely fine. I am also fine with not immediately having sex, or using our hands only for the first few years but i do expend a lot of sex long term.
Relationships period... are based on a mutually beneficial relationship! This can be from anything from that fancy other you raped the other night or a mutual interest in music. Fuck my use of 'rape' I ment... Comprortionantly envested efforts. Anyways, if you want sex and they aren't interested... really? Fuck that bruh! Ever been a straight white male and your gay black friend wants to bumb... hell no, he can find some fag to bump. Personal boundaries should still be respected.
Yes. I'm not all that interested in sex. I'm more into the play fighting going on walks watching a movie and just plain acting like children with each other.
Hell fucking no, sex and love are too closely intertwined for me. Anyway, what's point of a relationship without the most enjoyable act included?
Forever? No not forever. But I was in a LDR for 3 years and we didn't have sex for the first 2.
No, because I want children. But I wouldn't mind having sex only once or twice a year. I really dont care about sex like everyone else does
No bj's, hj's, or anything? That's not fun. My SO and I waited for intercourse until marriage, which I would endorse. We had fun doing other stuff though.I have heard of sexless marriages, which should not happen.
Already in one and has been for some time, grew to accept it as I love my wife regardless. I don't use sex as the absolute deciding benchmark which would dictate a messy divorce
I voted no because it seems pointless.Please answer mine?Guys, which face is prettier? And why if you know? ↗
Yes mainly because since in the past when I tried to date the only things guys wanted from me was sex and not a relationship so it kind of turned me against sex.
C. Yes, I am. But they all have penises and are called "friends", "buddies", etc.With a female? No. No sense to it.
No, I cannot, beautiful women lying next to me in bed, either we have some action or she must leave my house. I may sleep for a night or two, but that's it.
Yes i could be in a sexless relationship because even if most peoples like sex, i think there is a lot of things, in a relationship, who is more important than sex. Like the moments spend together or the love in a relationship.
No, that is called a friendship. And if she is thzt close to you. (BEST FRIEND) A RELATIONSHIP HAS MANY COMPONENTS AND IF WE ARE IN IT FOR THE HOPES OF THE END GAME, to be married. Then being intimate is a big part of that.
If she'd let me fuck other girls YES, otherwise NOI once met a girl who was perfect for me, but she had no intention of ever fucking.Fuck that!
Yes I could and I am in one. It's not easy but sex isn't everything. Hopefully it's not the base or part that holds your relationship together.
No. A sexless relationship is just a friendship in my opinion
I'm already in a sexless relationship the only person I have sex with is my self with masturbation. No girlfriend here.
Nope , i would end up cheating and leaving her if it wasn't a logical reason why she didn't want sex anymore
to me a sexless relationship is pointless. i guess i "could" in theory but i'd never decide to do that.
If having a fully adult relationship is important: a 360-degree relationship with emotional, mental and sexual energy balanced, I think it would be difficult for most people. There are those who say they are asexual. This might work for them.
Unless they’re ill or otherwise having a difficult issue, what’s the point? I have lots of great friends.
Depends on whether or not she finds me cute/pretty fucktoys to play with on a regular basis.
Yeah, I can settle for some cuddles and a nice tv show to watch together.
Yeah if she doesn't want to have sex. I would respect her.
Not any different than any other relationship I’ve had!
I would not want to be in a sexless marriage, but if something happened to Hubby or me where we could not have sex anymore. We would not split up over that.
If I love my partner enough yes. The emotional connection would have to be strong though. However this doesn't mean I won't masturbate.
Yes, if it's on mutual consent, which may change to sex :)
At my current age. Never. Prudes end up alone or with guys that have issues, unless they're LDS.
What is LDS?
@Just_a_human google it?
Latter day saints?
I’m on one. I never would have chosen one. It... pretty much killed the relationship.
No. That would be hell. I need sex at least 3 times per week. Preferably every morning. And some evenings too
Yes personally I could be sexless in a relationship since I don’t enjoy sex at all.
I couldn't, it's not all about that but it is a pretty big factor
Nope. Im not asexual and so o require a partner to have sex with.
What's the point of having balls? Lol it's torture for guys
Its called masturbation you know
Not even the slightest chance, it's not all about sex but sexless no way.
I’m in one right now and it been my decision to be that way.
Yeah I would be 100% okay with that. I do not think that it is necessary or even that important to a relationship. (I'm gray-asexual so that might be why)
Isn’t that the case of most married couples after they hit the 50 years old benchmark?
No. Sex is the 'glue'. For without it you are just room mates.
Lol Does ONLINE count Here, dear? LOLxxoo
Yes, if she's asexual.
No. Sex is important to me. I just like to be near him, feel him and build our connection.
There already is a term for sexless relationships. Its called platonic friendships.
I wouldn't be in a relationship, worth or without sex
I was in one and never again.
I could be in a sexless relationship because I and my partner aren't a married couple.
I was for about 7 years!!
I am completely fine with that
That’s what I call a good friendship
Yeah. All my relationships ate sexless.
If we shared the same views sure
I could, but I’d be unhappy.
Yeah I don't mind jerking it.
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