Honestly i think men are just more upfront about it. @honeyy99 do you think your more sexual than the average guy?
It depends on who I'm with. I can be really sexual around my close friends but more shy when I'm with a partner
@honeyy99 do you have snapchat?
What do you mean haha
That's my Snapchat.Cigarette. honey
Ohhh haha OK
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Overall, men, but there are some ways women can be considered more sexual (longer sexual stamina & an ability to "keep going" after orgasm, capacity for multiple orgasms, greater sexual pleasure derived from having nongenital body parts stimulated compared to men, etc).But if we are referring to who is more preoccupied by sex & more motivated to obtain sex, that would be men.
Equally sexual. The difference is that men are more honest about it, and girls often like to hide behind a prissy facade. But I always know how to break those down.
How do you ‘break those barriers down’ ?
@MissBollinger12 1. Establish trust/friendship2. Be playful3. Let playfulness transcend gradually into friskiness/incorporate subtle naughtiness into compliments 4. VoilaWorked wonderfully on my first romantic interest. She was known as quite a prude and the, "good girl" out and about, but man, did she let loose when she trusted me with her sexual fantasies.
(1) How long does this process usually take?(2) How many times has it been successful?
@MissBollinger12 1. Depends on the person, about a few weeks. 2. three times. And I might possibly be looking into a fourth right now!
We’ll see!What happens if the woman is genuinely just conservative/old school. For eg - I only have sex in 100% exclusive relationships with men have chased rather aggressively to get me. I don’t oblige for around 2-3 months from meeting. That is just my personal preference in case you are wondering... it isn’t based on any assumptions or negative experiences.
@MissBollinger12 Then they are, and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm quite old school myself, and a conservative, I just happen to have a very high sex drive accompanying that adherence. And my first interest was quite conservative too. But often there's a secret libido hiding somewhere there. And sometimes not! Also, to not cause any confusion, I am not referring to actual sex as I am saving myself for marriage. What I mean when I break down facades is that their fantasies come out, this usually manifests in sexting and such. I'm a sucker for sexting, and surprisingly my aforementioned first interest was very skilled in this, once she relaxed enough. I believe your policy is quite admirable and renders you high value for any man lucky to be a man enough to pursue you, my lady. But out of curiosity, has anyone ever done a successful job at it?
That is interesting. I didn’t expect you to be a virgin, since you mentioned a high sex drive. I hope you are not offended by that comment...In all honesty, I (politely) reject 97% of men that approach me. The reason being is that few of them have the traits I find attractive :- Cereberal/left brain hemisphere types (i. e. which compliment my ‘right brain’ INFJ personality).- Quick witted.- Non superficial charm.- I have a weird thing for blonde hair/blue eyes.- Preferably men that love animals, and are ideally 34 - 47.- Men that are great at the physical side of things, but not because they have slept around. - I’m not interested in men that aren’t prepared to be honest about/work on unresolved issues (I have no tolerance for insecurities, manipulation or other psychological defence mechanisms, and pick up on that sort of thing immediately).- I’m attracted to rather introverted people, that are not afraid to go after what they really want ( ... but are respectful throughout that process). So as you can imagine, few men are of that rather eclectic description!
@MissBollinger12 No offense taken. It's a natural assumption given the topic! Now if I recall my neurological facts correctly, the left hemisphere deals in facts and logic, and the right in creativity and imagination. Or was it the other way around? I myself, I can't really say. I value logic, reason and intelligence almost above all else, but I am also quite imaginative and creatively inclined, I write amateur poetry for example. Quick witted, check! Although you wouldn't know over gag, I can take my sweet time to think of something witty and upon commenting it'd still appear quick. I pride myself on superficial and profound charm, so have your choice! ;) I do count myself a friend of animals. I absolutely cherish my two cats, cats are my favorite animals but I love dogs as well. And I'll tell you if anything makes want to make people beg for the respite of *hell* it is those who do harm on cats and kittens. I mentally really cannot take it to see or hear them suffer.Blonde hair and blue eyes, check! I consider myself brutally honest, and after my first relationship, taught to not act out in a manner which you describe.Well, it's difficult to say in truth if I am good in bed since I am a virgin, but I have been told I'm good from as far as I have gone. My first girlfriend said that I learned to make out very quickly and well, and that my french kissing was awesome. I have done oral actually, (some claim this counts for not being virgin but I find that silly) and she had no complaints there either. The last point is the only one where it's a red X, so to speak. I'm naturally extrovert! But I am intrigued by your standards, they indicate a woman of quality. From what you say, it sounds like what you're really after is something far more than the mundane in love. Just, more!
@MissBollinger12 Apologies for the lengthy reply, I'm unashamedly chatty when people get me going.
They might not want it as much, but they damn right act it, and dress it.
biologically men want to spend there off spring to as many women as possible, while females biologically want to be more selective
Men are more open and upfront about it.i'll say no specific gender.
It depends on the individual person I have met some really sexual girls and some not so much.People are sexual in many different ways.What may be sexual to one may not to others.Sorry I know that hasn't answered your question that much.
i think men are driven by sex more but women are just as sexual
It has to do with libido. Some women have a high libido, and some men have a low one.
men are more openly sexual but women are more sexual in general i think
I’m sexy and I know OP’s mother wants to my diiiiiiiick
dogs for sure dogs
100% dogs in plain sight of there owners and no one bats an eyelid
I think women are, but they suppress it.
Women are asexual compared to men
I'm a sexual
Men are more sexual.
depends on the individual.
Women just lay on their backs
You must've been with some boring ass women 😂😂😂
Sad isn't it. 😥 But what do they actually do that make them so sexual in bed?
There's a lot of things girls can do in bed lmao
Well all I hear is insults and a lot of lol but no real answers.
Do you never watch porn or something? Girls can get hell creative when they want to
I've seen a little bit I dont see any women moving around the man is always in controll banging them
So you only know missionary sex? What about cowgirl, 69, doggy style? (Girls can fuck back) or basically any other position
I do know it but the thing is they don't move the man does all the moving they just hold still
Try exploring a bit and you'll see that really isn't true
And you have? How
Missionary bored me 🤷♀ So I started learning about new stuff
I don't know.
I think women are.
I don't know how this is even a question. On average, men are clearly far more sexual than women.
men for sure.
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