I'm sensing a pattern with these questions haha :) In "real life" I'm more of a 'mediator' type, so not especially dominant or submissive, I just try to read a situation and act in the most effective way possible. I don't dictate, nor do I allow myself to be dictated to, I mostly just stay in my own lane and do my own thing. Although when necessary I can step up and be a leader, but I'd classify that as different from being "dominant".In bedroom is very different, I like power play on both sides (as covered in answer to your last question). I sometimes say I'm mild-mannered in real life coz I'm saving up all the best stuff for behind closed doors lol
Sexually, I'm neither. In real life, I'm also neither. But I have romantic fantasies of me being what I'll call "playfully submissive" with a girl, where I'll oblige with whatever she tells me to do as long as she says it in a light-hearted joking manner, and not like she's seriously trying to boss me around. Kind of like my way of saying, "Okay, you're a princess for a day. What would you like me to do for you?" (So obviously I don't mean for me to do anything demeaning for myself).But with friends (not that I have any anymore), I was always neutral and never subscribed to this whole dominant-submissive dynamic. Just seems futile.
I voted G since it's not really about dominating as much, yes I like to take charge in my normal life, not bossy but on the ball and I can be feisty. Bedroom is different, I like pleasure and show of power but it's more of a playfight changing positions, one person on top then the other taking and giving pleasure in the same time, not all about one person. not just one option.
That isn't the same but in practice it will be. If they doesn't know how to lead as a person, how should they do it sexually? We aren't animals that just jump each other on. There is also something called rythm. Adjusting to each other is always necessary when the roles aren't set.
Then it depends on who is adjusting more. Normally it should be the guy.
Cause a dick gets a stronger arousal than the vag, so the girl has to 'compensate' that by mental and physical activity.
Have an opinion?
I'm a perfect gentleman in real life but when the clothes start coming off, her ass is mine!!
Men are naturally dominant in bed and in life over their female mates. However, with mass effeminization of men today, there are an odd number of masochistic cucks. I've noticed that women like to be dominated to the extreme (more than just rough normal intercourse with a big and fit guy) I think this is because society still says that is okay (cause its desired by women and its really just how sex works) yet society says don't be lead by a man, wear the pants or stay available and just hook up so you never lose your independence, therefore to get their fix as a woman - the deep innate/genetic desire to be lead by a strong, yet caring man, to submit, all comes out during sex and that is why so many women want to be "choked" and thrown around the bed during sex these days, because the suppress those desire in their everyday life and they only have around a few hours a week or a month to let it all out.
Ok my answer is super complicated, so I'm neither dominant or submissive outside the bedroom, but I'm bisexual so when I have sex with men I'm submissive and a bottom but when I have sex with women I'm super dominant, it kinda depends on how I'm feeling, somtimes I Only want to be dominant and have sex with women and sometimes I only want to be submissive and have sex with men, I don't really know my sexuality is kinda fucked up, I'm definitely more straight than gay though so I'm dominant more often than not
I am very dominant in life but tend to be submissive in the bedroom. It feels nice not being in charge in at least one part of my life. I can be aggressive sometimes, but prefer it when she is. I have not actually had sex so I have to use my experience when it comes to making out/messing around in its place.
Mixture of F and G. I am not really a dominant person in real life. I am not an alpha male and don't participate in powerplay.In the bedroom its different, i love powerplay and find dominating a partner the biggest mental turn on while being dominated is the most pleasurable. So i enjoy both especially if its both in one session.
With some people, special women, these terms mean NOTHING!!Why do I, or why does she, need to assume some role, and be LABELED as SOMETHING but a person, loving another person?
In life I try to avoid conflict as much as possible so I tend to give ground when it's about something I don't particularly care about. During sex I'm neither, being submissive annoys/angers me and being dominant makes me feel like an asshole.
In my professional life I have to switch, I have to be able to boss people around, but also be nice to people, although to be honest, if I had a new partner, I'd like a submissive one.
I’m definitely a very submissive person. I couldn’t take pleasure out of being dominant, although when I worked as a phone actress most men wanted me to be dominant, but I didn’t enjoy being dominant, it was just work for me. Now, I really really enjoy being submissive for a dominant man who knows how to make me feel like the little minx I am.
I am dominant. I think that compliant and nurturing guys get more pussy cause they are kind to women. But i can't do it. I just can't. They are too silly and time wasting sometimes. I send them away so often. Its so bad and egotistical.
I'm not completely submissive in bed, but I do like to let him guide me most of the time. I HATE to be submissive in everyday life.
I voted E, I'm submissive Outside, and Inside the bedroom... (even though I've never shared a bedroom with a girl)
Yes it is but every time someone finds out I’m in the bdsm lifestyle they’re surprised about it but not surprised about my role (dom)
My girlfriend and I don't have this kind of relationship, but judging by who we are in the bedroom we may both be submissive in such a relationship.
Nope. I'm only submissive in the bedroom but in everyday life, It depends. Sometimes, I like to try to take control and Be a leader. Sometimes I'm more submissive.
I like to have a Dominant younger Woman to control meand i like to be forced to eat a girl out whose got a hairybush.
Just want to give a shout out to all the girls that are not dominant in everyday life but are dominant in the bedroom. When I was 19, I did not see that cumming 😉 #FreekInTheSheets
I am very inconsistent. I like to keep people guessing so they can't get a solid read on me.
Dominant in every day Life but I like to switch in bed. It's sometimes nice stress relief to let her make the decisions in the bedroom and follow her orders.
In my relationship I have strictly a submissive role, in bed or otherwise. Outside of the relationship I’m not really either.
I'm dominant for both. I love having control during sex and in life
I'm dominant but can be submissive mostly dominant
I think both participants should switch roles, that is much more hot.
My girlfriend and I are both dom and sub when it comes to everyday life and sex.
I’m a tough cookie in everyday life (not dominant, but feisty is more like it lol) but submissive in bed
I’m extremely dominant both in everyday life and the bedroom.
In the bedroom I'm submissive but out of the bedroom I like to be in charge
Hi, I suggest you have a look at this excellent blog - https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/ I am a Dom in the way this describes. Hope you enjoy x
I'm not a dominant or submissive person, but on the bed I love latex and corsets
I'd say I'm in between dominate and submissive outside the bedroom but definently dominate in the bedroom
Yes it is consistent. My actual role matched my preferred role.
Im a switch however im hesitant about being dominant
I'm a leader in everyday life but I wouldn't say dominant. Though in the bedroom I'm very very vERY dominant.
I don't have the experience to answer this question.
l am a dominant daddy l love a kind of submissive girl l can switch as well
Well i am a sub sexually but i am not so much sub or dom in everyday lifeI just take it as per the situation. i am very friendly though
I can be dominant or submissive in everyday life but I’m aware that I’m usually more submissive in regards to sex
I'm not a dominating person or I should say I don't consider myself a dominating person, but when it comes to sex I like being in control 100% all the time.
I think I would preffer dominant but I will surely like to be tied up once just to see how it is.
Girl I the picture got some beautiful BBC sucking lips
I don't know sexually, but for relationship wise I like to swap around.
I'm more dominant in the bedroom than I am in everyday life
Voted E, I'm not a dominant person in everyday life. & I'm submissive in the bedroom
Hohoho Marry Christmas
Voted A And my girlfriend loves it ;)
I am dominant both in the bedroom and out.
Nope a person that meets me would say i am mysterious quiet sometimes people even call me shy but when having sex I get the dominant sexual role.
It's fun to mix things up in the bedroom.
Whatever works at the time.
My role is the same as in real life
Whatever the dog prefers
Not sureWhat about you?
I'm a dominant. I like to have control.
I enjoy hurting bitches until they orgasm. Dominate.
Dominant in everything. Thats my role as a man
I’m submissive in the bedroom and in person.
Is that a photo of Angelina Jolie?
Maybe, it came up when I searched "dominatrix"
Yes, I remember from Mr and Mrs Smith movie, it's Angelina for sure
Other. I’m more of a ted Bundy type guy.
Dominant and yes.
I'm very submissive. In and outside the bedroom.
Dominant in everyday lifeSubmissive in bedroom
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.