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How do you tell your SO they aren't pleasing you sexually?

How do you tell your SO they aren't pleasing you sexually?
I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He's 24 and I'm 21. It seems like he doesn't really care about pleasing me sexually. If I want to have sex I have to ask because trying to get him to kiss me or anything is impossible. I've been sitting next to him and pulled my boobs out and he just asked me what I was doing. When I do ask if he wants to have sex, he says "if you want". So not a turn on. Then if he's horny he asks me for a blowjob and after he's gotten off he goes back to whatever he was doing and doesn't do anything for me. I can't remember a time we've had foreplay that's lasted more than 5 minutes. I love him to death but I'm so frustrated. What do I do?
How do you tell your SO they aren't pleasing you sexually?
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