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I understand why the father feels upset, and it's true that he doesn't have an obligation to take care of her daughter or her child at all, but it feels like he's overreacting, and might change his mind later.At least I think so because I know that if I got pregnant now my parents would be upset, and would probably scold me, but they would love to meet their grandchild, and would be willing to help me raise their grandchild. But my parents love kids in general.I think is the idea of this grandfather rejecting his grandchild, who's not guilty of anything, what makes me a bit sad about the situation. Also because I hold the idea of grandparents beign loving, as mine were that.
He's under no obligation to financially support her if she's over 18 (that's the job of the baby's father), but it was cruel to basically emotionally disown her.
by the way where did you find this?
It's a conversation between me and my daughter
How old is your daughter? You're only 23
You had a child when you were 7?
Hopefully he's just pissed an not thinking.. Id be furious as well if my kid gets knocked up but I'm support her every an any way possible... she's put up with an accepted my issues without question and loves me no different knowing my faults past an how an what I've done.. She's rhe reason I'm alive... I can't judge her only support her unconditionally no matter what...
I agree with almost everything he said and I understand his pain. but I think he went a little too far with saying he doesn't want to even meet his unborn "bastard" grandson. I mean I can understand if the father of the kid is a street thug or a gang banger. but this is not what he stated
He's not acting like a compassionate father. Birth control fails. Maybe she's choosing a path she wants more than school. Her father disowning her will not help anything. He's being very ugly. Disappointment is understandable. If he follows through with his threats, he will regret treating his child this way one day. Maybe it's good he won't be in her life. He seems toxic. Time might dull his anger. I'd leave him alone. If he comes around fine. If he doesn't, she knows where she stands. Alone.
Very sad. Its stupid getting pregnant , but we all do stupid things. Similar thing happened to me with one of my daughters. She said the condom burst , It makes no difference she was pregnant the guy did a runner , so we all rallied round to help her.
What an asshole. You are an asshole. You don't even want to discuss it. Was it planned or did the father plan it? Your grandchild has right to know who their family is and is apart of your family they are innocent to all of this. Your daughter and the father has obligation to taking care of the child and one day i pray for God to support her so that she out does you in everything for disowning your child.
Life rarely is planned.
He is in his rights. She probably didn’t listen after he spoke to her multiple times but she wanted to do what she wanted to do and is now in this situation. The father/ grandfather a lot of times has to pay for the child since the guy that knocked her up leaves her. I see lots of white grandparents taking their dumb daughters black baby to the park or whatever. Sometimes she is with them with no ring but never is the guy there, he is always missing.
The father is a redneck who has lots of self issues.. Its wrong to take his emotional baggages and throw them at his daughter..But, an interesting question would be; was he actually jealous that another guy fucked her? Because thats quite common, for fathers to disinherit his daughter if she has sex at all, because THE DAD dreams of fucking her. My friend is a psychiatrist, coming from him.Dads wanting to fuck their teenage girl isn't something rare guys..
I think he was mad jealous that another male tasted her pussy..
I can understand him being pissed, but this is a bit of an overreaction.
Wtf is wrong with that complete asshole. Wtf. I wish I could beat his ass!!! She doesn't deserve that. She talks as if that was like his normal reaction.
Looks fake but if not then she’s better off without that in her life
What’s wrong with her father? He’s such asshole leave her daughter on her own? That’s awful! Hope you are ok? 🌸
That is messed up. It’s his daughter. He may disapprove, but to respond like that, that’s really messed up.
Pretty shitty father. Ok somethings went wrong with her birth control but to disown her because of it is ridiculous..
I'd say he's treating her like a son. How a father normally treats a son.
no dad would do that in his right mind to his son or daughter
If she’s a “stupid fucking idiot,” it’s because you raised to be one. Well done daddy
... you raised HER to be one.
If my dad talked to me this way I wouldn’t want his help anyways I would tell him to fuck off for talking to me that way, if I’m a slut he’s a mother fucker lmao
He went overboard. That's not the right way to treat your daughter or family for that matter regardless if the pregnancy was planned or not. She is better off without toxic family like that.
That sounds like a terrible father!! What the hell?
Wow! I sure wish that was my daddy :)
Boy, that really sucks. What kind of car was it?
It's sad that your daughter experienced a moment of weakness and her poor judgement cost her the ultimate price. Fuck! Was it candy apple red?
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he was just pissed he’ll come around
Plot twist the baby is his
Why do americans have so little solidarity?
Well she's obviously better off without that then
He is cool
He was acting way to uncaring and heartless.
She seems to be handling this very well
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