I know this is kind of an embarrassing question, but I need to know what to do at this point. I'm not hideous (about average), and I have a lot of friends who are girls, so talking to females is not really a problem. I guess you could say I just never really got around to it (had other things going on all the time), but now I look at myself and see a bit of a loser, even though I have a car and a decent job, and I'm nice to a lot of people. I don't know. Wdyt?