I am single and want to be single for the rest of my days. in my youth I didn't believe in one night stands and always tried to pleasure my girlfriends as much as poss. now in my 30s I realise I have missed out on a lot of fun. I now have lots of fetishes and fantasies so I am close to booking an escort for a night of nudity and hopefully some fantasies become a reality. what are your views about guys paying for the company of a lady if he has no other option?