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Let me clarify, that I mean a younger girlfriend, NOT a mistress!
It is no different than being with an extremely attractive woman, such as I've been with actresses (one semi-famous) and national beauty pageant finalists.
I can understand that
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I'm always wondering whenever you are joking or this hooker is really a regular thing...
I’m a feminist and I don’t care if an older man crave younger girls as long as they’re legal, but preferably older than 20 cause a woman in her teens, can easily be manipulated. The same way that I would find a 50 years old woman disgusting for lurking after a 19 years old boy.The only thing I hate about the older men/younger woman couples is how men act as if they age like wine just because some of them can afford to get a younger wife with their money, while we all know that a woman who’s as proactive as them can also easily get a younger attractive partner especially if she’s a hot milf.I just find that ridiculous how rich old, bald ugly men believe that their young wives love them because if their personality or the way they carry themselves while it’s nothing but for their ressources. Sure a young woman can purely love an older man, but it’s the same way that a young man can purely love an older woman.You love young perky women? Good for you. But don’t shame women your age, cause first it’s pathetic, secondly even attractive women over 35, still have a large dating pool. And even science proved that the sperm quality of a man start to decrease when he hit the age of 35, and his baby mama will have higher chances of giving birth to an autist or having a miscarriage no matter her so even if she’s in her early twenties.Women don’t age like wine but neither do men.
*no matter her age
@Dali-chan yes sperm does decrease with quality but nowhere as bad as ovaries. Also I legitimately dated a 21 yr old when I was 35 (38 now). She was the first to say “I love you” and she was never a freeloader. Ever. She cooked me dinners, took me out to dinner for my bday and even surprised me with a dress shirt one time. I was happy to treat her well in return. She didn’t take me for granted. However at the turn thought it was some schoolgirl fantasy she was having, wouldn’t last long. But we ended dating for 9 months. I didn’t end well but it was fun while it lasted. But you want to know why I’m angsty about feminism? I’ve actually tried dating women closer to my own age. I’’m shocked that many of them (not all) have bitter, really shitty attitudes. I can’t believe how choosy they are. I know I don’t look as good as I did at 24. I might still have a full head of hair and 6 pack abs still (not joking). But I don’t have a shitty attitude on dates. I also know with young women it’s a toss up. Some will like me more for being older and some will get creeped out. But that’s the shit risk I run talking to them. Just saying hello to some women is enough to unfairly be called a creep if they don’t like the guy (no matter how courteous he is). I don’t see you see feminists ever calling out women on that crap. I even saw an article on slate (came in the search results) about some shit feminist theorizing that it’s “okay” to call guys creeps because “that’s how a woman feels”. So I guess guys can label women whores if they just “feel” the woman is promiscuous? Anyway not to get off topic. But the fact if the matter is that older men have been with younger women for all of human history. Not saying it’s right but it evolved beyond just monetary and support reasons. Young men do not have instincts to seek out older women for support.
Also just tonight I visited a jiu jitsu ceremony and I next to a 20 year girl who was one of the students. We have chatted briefly before (we both went to the same CrossFit gym). I think she is cute as hell but when it comes down to it I’m not going to pursue her. One of the reasons is I train with her dad sometimes. I’m way beyond him on skill and strength. But still I don’t think he would appreciate me trying to date her. However having a fun convo with her that was semi flirty felt good tbh. I ask her about school, what do on her 21st bday coming up, I elbow teased her about training more so she can fight off creepy aggressive guys at the bar (she laughed hard), I wished her well and said if there was ever a warm day this winter we should go running. I’m dunno if I will follow up on that, probably not. But the fact she talked for a while and was fun in itself put me in a better mood. Yeah I admit she is hot as hell. But I won’t push it. But if she ever reached to me... who knows.
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Everyone can have a shitty attitude. I never said that women are angels and men the devils, but even younger women don’t have the naturel instinct to seek older men. Most women want a guy who’s 2 years younger than them to 5 years older than they are! Women were marrying older men in the old days because they didn’t truly have choice, and it was more a matter of survival because they couldn’t be financially stable, by themselves. Sure your 21 years old ex-girlfriend may have been attracted to you, and spoiled you, but I also saw many 21-26 years old men, dating and spoiling women in their late thirties. My dad is 3 years younger than my mom, and he’s a CEO while she was working for him, so he’s the main breadwinner.I just find it disgusting, how men claim that women start hitting the wall at 30, and calling them delusional if they dare to want an attractive man who’s the same age as them, no matter how pretty they are. Men are more entitled to young women.And the thing about the fertility is a real joke, because now women can freeze their eggs, as I told you the sperm quality decrease with ages, so it’s also putting younger women In danger to marry an older man, and what’s so funny about moids is that they spend their whole life actively trying to avoid impregnating someone, are more likely to leave their families, freak out if the came inside or if their girlfriend forgot to take the pill, and yet have the nerve to use fertility as an excuse for wanting younger women.I’m 21 and I will ofc call a 35+ years old man creepy if he flirt with me. Not immediately, but if he’s persistent then he will definitely be more of a creep in my eyes than if he was young. Some men actually believe that women aren’t visual creatures, and they they’re the only gender who deserve to be with someone young and attractive.
@Dali-chan I was treated like complete shit by women in my late teens and most of my 20s for being a “nice guy” from other women my same ages. Ironically younger women expect older men to be nicer and more mature. So my later success with younger women really came down to me just being myself. I once asked my 21 yr old girlfriend why she was dating me. She said “it’s because you are so sweet”. This was 5 months into the relationship. Also thank you for not judging an older guy for being a “creep” immediately if he talks to you. I agree that if he is overly persistent or makes a obvious sexual remark than he’s a creep. I never do that. 99% of the time he is just trying it figure out how you feel about him. I actually used to talk to 22 year old cashier for over a year. I tried to figure out if she was just friendly or liked me beyond. She always remembered our prior conversations. One day i casually mentioned hanging out and her expression changed (not for the better). I knew right there and then she wasn’t interested. I almost apologized but just decided to never try again. But I had to find out. Again it’s up to men 95 percent of the time to FIND out. That’s the risk men take and women take for granted. We do the approaching. If it’s a younger woman it can even be more tricky.
And I’m not joking about women in their 30s having a shitty attitude. I don’t get it. They don’t have leeway to pull that crap anymore. My guess is that they relied on their looks when they were younger to get away with murder. Father Time took that away and they never had to develop a personality. Good looks will fade but a shitty personality won’t.
Someone doesn't understand the difference between organs and secretions
I think so, I'm not sure to be honest
So u would actually b able to catch feelings for her
I could have sex with a woman on a regular basis with no relationship type feelings becoming involved.
I have casual relations with a guy thats 47... I’m 23 but he’s good at sex though sooooo idc.
@SarahsSummer I only date younger dudes😏
Ya know lol
lol I don’t like dating guys younger than me the ones my age are practically still growing out of immaturity
Wives/Girlfriends my experiences there loves are satisfied in bed room so they come to me.