I’m thinking of asking smth like that for Christmas.
for kids like you that have to deal with irresponsible parents, the best thing you can do is get a job and gain independence early. Get a job and buy some nice shit off craigslist
My mom isn’t irresponsivle. I just think that the he couldn’t help himself because I could barely hear my mom.
son, your mom is irresponsible, and the sooner you learn to start giving her the judgement she deserves is as fast as she'll shape up. No mother should be having sex with dudes who aren't your father so loud you can hear it. She CHOSE that man, she chose the man to have kids with that left her and you, she didn't have to open her legs. Women need men to judge them if they are to be held to any kind of standard, this is truth. As a kid you aren't responsible for your childhood, she is. Ultimately it's always the girl who decides whether or not kids happen. Get a job and hit craigslist buy dope speakers
But he is also irresponsible for being loud then. I’m gonna blast music sometime to make them shut up or barge into their room and help him.
yeah but you gotta understand, regardless of whether he is loud or not, it's your mom that invited this guy into your house, and it's her responsibility to make sure you have a good childhood and not expose you to fucked shit like hearing your mom get railed by an ogre in your teens. Shit's fucked man.
Ik man. I asked a single mom and she told me that moms have needs too so I mean she probably needs some loving too you know. It’s wrong what she did but like I feel bad for her. I hope this dude makes her happy tho.
man don't be another one of those cuck women enablers raised by a single mom. This is what they do to their kids, they make them into little enablers with their clever social tricks and guilt. At which point do her needs come before yours?AT NO POINT! That's what happens when you have kids. You can tell her to stop being so fucking greedy and start thinking a little more about what YOU need, you being the child, her being the parent.
So how do I tell her?
unfortunately she is your mom and it would be difficult, I don't know, it's a little late now. What you can do is gain independence at a young age. Get a job, move out, and let her wonder why. If she ever expresses any guilt about her actions, that is the time to tell her
That would be illegal
fuck the law ur a kid do what u want before the law actually starts to kind of matter
That’s kinda true. I won’t get a harsh punishment in court.
u won't get any punishment at all, my advice is try to find a place where u can live with roomates and have them do all the paperwork. You gotta be careful tho, maybe you know somebody older? A cousin, a trusted relative or friend of some sort? More importantly than moving out is having the money to do it if you need to and being able to assert to your mom that if she is not acting in a good parent way, you will leave. That will scare her into right action.
I will talk to her first
How? Like knock on the door? They already finished with roun two and are probably donefor the night but for next time. I really don’t want to listen to this anymore. I don’t wanna imagive this dude screwing my mom hard.
Well they sometimes aren't occupied i hope? Mom will be embarresed when you pose such a remark. Next time at least she will pull on the break or hopefully can relate to your uncomfort.
Yeah I put my earbuds in now. It’s still really sick thinking what’s happening im the room next to me. Should I sneak to their door and then barge in and ask ”WTF is going in here?”. I have honestly had enough of this BS.
Haha yes definitely lol... and yeah it makes me sick too it's so annoying
So this happens to you too? How old are your parents?
42 and 43 I think... and yeah i'm pretty sure it happens to all parents lol
That’s pretty young too. My mom is 37 while I’m 16. My dad is a lot older but I rarely see him. My stepdad is 39.
oof yeah it is... it sucks when they fight... makes me wanna scream... or cry lol
My mom and stepdad never fight. I wanted to cry when my mom and dad used to fight. It sucked ass.
It really does :(
Well, at least hearing them clapping and moaning is better than fighting
Haha you sure about that? lol
Honestly no but at least it doesn’t make me sad and cry
Yeah that's true
I think he just finished. I hope they are done and aren’t going for round 2.
Haha I totally feel you
can I follow you?
k actually just follow me since you're anonymous lol?
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