Why won’t he have sex with me?

Anonymous
I’ve been talking to a guy on and off for almost a year. We’re not in a relationship because neither of us really wants one right now since we’re both young (I’m 19 & he’s 20). We’re both definitely attracted to each other but we hang out every few weeks. We’ve done just about everything else besides actual sex. We both give each other oral, there’s fingering, and lots & lots of kissing. But we never had actual sex and i don’t understand why. It’s not just a physical connection because we do talk on the phone, check up on each other, it’s not always sexual when we meet up, and he’s even introduced me to all his friends. My theory is that he doesn’t want to because a lot of people that went to high school with us have accidentally gotten pregnant since we graduated. I’m just confused but i feel a little nervous to ask him directly. I want to do it but I just don’t know how to handle the situation. What should I do?
Why won’t he have sex with me?
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