1 mo

Ladies, how rare are sexually assertive women?

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Anonymous
Men are typically expected to take most if not all initiative (ask out, plan dates, make the moves, ask for marriage, etc.). I'm a guy who is straight but I'm ONLY happy in a relationship where I'm being sexually pursued in the way that women typically are, i. e. I can't make those moves. It's not really a matter of preference, without being compatible in this way the relationship is never worth it. Also not into BDSM, this is almost always the first assumption people make...

So my question is do you actually know women who are interested in a guy like me or is this a situation where I'm looking for a real unicorn? I'd appreciate your insights.
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1 mo
Just to be clear I specifically mean that 3rd part, when it comes to intimacy and sex. I have no issues doing the other stuff like planning dates.
Ladies, how rare are sexually assertive women?
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