My friends with benefits and I love exploring sex together, we always have a good time with lots of giggling, good pleasure and amazing pillow talk afterwards. He recently confessed to me that in his opinion our sexual encounters are meaningless and that he'd like it to mean something more. I am baffled by his statement because he's always told me I was the best he ever had, that he always loves the way I hold and caress him and so on. What does he mean by that? How can we be more intimate together?