My boyfriend masturbates before we have sex?

Question

He says this is to stop him coming quickly (he usually don’t last long)

but I’ve noticed he can’t go again very quickly after he comes with me. Is that normal? Even like having a half hour break?

Answer 1

RemoErdosain | 850 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Yeah, that's completely normal. Does he last long after masturbating? That's a technique some people use. Personally, I've never tried it, but I'm pretty sure he's being completely honest

Asker

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So he’ll masturbate a few hours before he sees me. In the hopes of not coming too quickly. Then we’ll have sex and he can usually delay the coming then. It once he has come, he can’t really go a second time with me. He’s already masturbated tho and had sex with me once
RemoErdosain

9 d
Yeah, it's totally normal that he can't go for round two. If he's able to fuck you good the first time, though, that shouldn't be a problem.
Asker

9 d
Yeah it’s amazing so no complaints lol

Answer 2

Asker

So he’ll masturbate a few hours before he sees me. In the hopes of not coming too quickly. Then we’ll have sex and he can usually delay the coming then. It once he has come, he can’t really go a second time with me. He’s already masturbated tho and had sex with me once

Answer 3

RemoErdosain

Yeah, it's totally normal that he can't go for round two. If he's able to fuck you good the first time, though, that shouldn't be a problem.

Answer 4

Asker

Yeah it’s amazing so no complaints lol

Answer 5

Wiredone | 428 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Every guy recovers differently after they cum. Some guys are ready to go again in 5 minutes, others might take half hour to 45 minutes. Masterbating before sex so he can last longer, I've never heard that. If he wants to last longer have him keep changing positions during sex. If I don't change positions I'll cum in like 15 minutes. When I change positions I last hours.

Answer 6

Bee-Hatch | 551 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

They need to recharge once set off. Bit of a design flaw but you've got to work with what you've got.

Answer 7

QuestionMark19 | 86 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Yes. Guys have to wait. For me it could be hours before I'm interested in sex again. Sometimes even a day.

Answer 8

Anonymous

It takes time to rebound after cumming.

But jerking off and sex are not related.

Asker

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How long to rebound though?
Opinion Owner

8 d
Depends... but around 20 mins

Answer 9

Asker

How long to rebound though?

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

Depends... but around 20 mins

Answer 11

Joke777213

Xper 1

Yeah it helps a guy to last longer, alternatively you could suck him off the first round.

Answer 12

andy530 | 4.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yea it’s the refractory period it’s normal

Answer 13

Since88

Xper 4

It's going to get better in time.

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