Is it abusive if a mom beats her teenage daughter, calls her a hoe and stupid because she's having sex with guy and was taken advantage of by fuckboy?

[MrOracle]

The hitting might be abusive, but otherwise, she has a point, and you should consider listening to what she's saying. She's trying to keep you from getting pregnant, getting a permanent STD, or having your emotions ripped to shreds, and it's up to YOU to prevent that, which means that you need to make SMART decisions, not just whatever seems fun at the moment.

You don't seem to have any concept at just how quickly your life can be changed - for years or decades - by a single bad decision.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Mom shouldn't beat the teen girl that is physically abusive and for her to say bad stuff about her that is verbally abusive. My Dad used to verbally abuse me and my sister, late mom when she was living yes it was horrible

[hellacray]

Sure but I think the mom is doing the right thing.

Cause yelling at her isn't going to do anything. So why not try beating some sense in to her.

And honestly I do think it's her fault. Of course the girl is going to say the guy took advantage of her. Does that make it true?

I believe she consented then realized she screwed up and is looking for a scapegoat.

[Dragonpurple]

It is abusive if a mother is beating her... I need not go further.

[EaterPeter]

Yes it is absuvie. This is what I call free pass situation. She don't get free pass to miss treat you. She probably deserves the help and so do you.

[slatyb]

"Beats?" That's abusive.

[shadyresidence]

Its definitely abusive

[Anonymous]

its better to advice her normally without beating her or abusing her or shouting at her. and also she shouldn't have have sex.

[Valnac]

I’d definitely report her and have her arrested.

[pokenstroke]

Mom is jealous