We have been together now for about 10 years and my husband and I never have sex anywhere but the bed, far after dark, way passed went the kids are in bed. We used to have sex every chance we got, in any place that chance took place in. Now it's only the bed, only in the dark, and usually way passed when either of us are fully conscious and can really enjoy everything going on. Why doesn't he take every chance? I'll ask and he says no, until it's dark and we are in bed. Is there anything I can do to make things exciting in new places for him again?