So my second cousin (25m) was talking with me (26f) recently in his backyard and he told me to verbally describe a bl*wj*b to him. I refused so he began verbally describing it saying if I knew how it's done, I wouldn't find it gross. He was saying "you take.. and.. " so I yelled at him to stop and he did. I don't want to create a wrong impression of him, so I'm asking this anonymously. Is this a normal conversation between two friends? If you're a straight male, have you spoken like this with any of your female friends?