So my second cousin (20m) was talking with me (21f) recently in his backyard and he told me to verbally describe a bl*wj*b to him. I refused, so he began verbally describing saying "you take the.. and" so I yelled at him to stop and he did. I do know straight friends of opposite gender talk about sex to 'explore' different perspectives, but here he was describing how it's done to me. So I don't know if it's crossing the line or if I'm being sensitive and overreacting? I don't want to create a wrong impression of him, so I'm asking this anonymously If you're a straight male, have you spoken like this with any of your female friends/ 2nd cousins?
I said straight male, because he's a straight male and I'm female.