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How to become closer without becoming intimante?

I met him about a year ago, but the passed month when he comes to town he says over or when I go to see him, I say over. We haven't had sex yet. Nor have we talked too much about it, or about our relationship. Things just feel good, and they seem to work... But just for now. Eventually sleeping in the same bed, it will lead to sex, but that's not what I want. I don't like to have sex with men unless I'm the only person they're having sex with, and I know that there is something there. But I don't know how to bring that up. I don't know where we stand, but I don't want to sound clingy or needy by figuring out what he wants...

What are some things I should say to him, or ask him? How do I bring it up? I need some advice, thank.
How to become closer without becoming intimante?
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