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How to deal with obsessive thoughts about sex?

Okay I have many obsseive thoughts about sex I am still a virgin. They make me feel deppressed and often lead to excessive masterbation which I want to stop here is a list of all my thoughts
1. The girl having way to many sexual partners before me and having had slept around a lot and had threeways a lot.
2. Her having to get tested for stds and me never being able to get tested for stds.
3. Not being able to satisfy her sexually
4. Not having a lot of sexual partners. And I fear I won't have any casual sex in my life.
5. Scarred that my penis won't be big enough
6. Never having sex
7. Not losing my virginity before 20. (I'm 18 now)
8. Us not having sex everyday
9. Me knowing all of her sexual history
10. Or reading stories about sex or p*rn in general kind of make me upset. These thoughts cause me anxiety and make me feel bad and I can never get rid of them. I don't know how to stop these thoughts when I get them. And they are controlling my life please help me
How to deal with obsessive thoughts about sex?
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