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Dealing with friends with benefits?

I've been friends with benefits for some while now with this guy. I know a relationship ain't for me because majority of the time they turn sour and then you have to deal with the heart brake. But I also know that seeing no one at all also isn't good for me. I want to come to terms and deal with just "seeing someone" and feel comfortable doing it. At the moment I feel used at times but other times I am more than happy about that. What coping mechanism can I use to help me be happy all the time about being friends with benefits? I know this is what lads prefer and I want to know how they deal with it all so well!!
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Dealing with friends with benefits?
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