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Um... haven't had sex in three years. Sexual frustration?

I'm a healthy, decent looking 20 year old and i haven't had sex/been in a relationship in three years. It hasn't bothered me until recently, but now i'm getting kind of depressed because of it because 1) it's affecting my self-esteem and 2) i have a lot of sexual tension/frustration. masturbation is just not enough anymore.

On top of this, one of my good friends is always hooking up with people and she literally starts complaining after not having sex for like 1-3 months.

I feel like the main reason she gets a bunch of guys is because she's a lot better at flirting than me. Even if a guys starts off talking/eyeing me he'll end up with scoring my friends number in the end.

what can i do? or what am i doing wrong?
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also- i feel like im missing out on a lot of the sexual experience that you gain in your 20s.
Um... haven't had sex in three years. Sexual frustration?
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