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I do mind. I don't see how watching another woman naked and getting off to her image is not considered cheating. In a relationship, the only woman getting you off should be the one you're committed to. It seems that the only argument people usually have is that "every guy does it", that it's not a big deal because they don't personally know the girl- that's bullshit to me. There's even scientific evidence that p*rn can increase a man's desire to f*ck other woman, and can make it harder for him to be turned on by his own girlfriend or wife due to desensitization.And a lot of guys don't like it when the tables are turned. As an experiment, with my ex boyfriend I googled solo p*rn of guys wanking like "hot guy jerks off" or whatever, and left it in my history so he would find it. He was SO fucking mad when he found it. He wouldn't tell me for a while why he was acting so pissed but it eventually came out. He felt insecure and hurt that I had been lusting and masturbating over other guys (even though I hadn't really).
I understand that many, many men do it, but I also know those who don't. I know a man is capable of going without that form of stimulation, and although I would be willing to tolerate it, I would much prefer it not happen. Let me explain why. First off, I feel that P*rnography contributes to the viewing of a woman as an object. If you would like, I can cite some scientific studies for you. I would not like that in a relationship, whether I'm with a woman or man. Second, I want to spend that time with my partner, why would they want to do that when they could be doing it with me? My friend dated a boy who would do it while she was in the same room, or in the one next door. I feel like, if nothing else, that's wasting a free resource... Lasty, I don't think it shows a whole lot of appreciation or respect to the person you're in a relationship with. You're not proving that they have a value above all others or are more important to you than anyone else... Maybe I'm a sentimental woman, but this is how I see it.
yes i would mind. i just watched the movie fireproof with my boyfriend and one of the points was that anything that takes your love or your attention away from your girlfriend/wife is a parasite to your relationship and should be cast away.
Nope. I'd be a hypocrite if I did. Also, In this day and age, it's going to happen, and they're going to do it, even if they vehemently deny it. Some women put too much thought into it, in my opinion. "Omg he was masturbating to p*rn, does this mean he doesn't love me and doesn't think i'm attractive, or that he wishes I had bigger boobs?"No. Not even close.
Why do you say you'd be a hypocrite?
I don't mind what my boyfriend masturbates to as long as I get to watch. And maybe help. I would be lying if I said I didn't look at/read p*rn from time to time. I just like the experience to be shared.
I don't see any issue with it. I'd have to be extremely insecure to be worried about that. It's a normal aspect of one's sexuality, both for guys and girls.By the way, it's "masturbate", not "masterbate". It's got nothing to do with the "master", even if you'd like to think so, lol.
I don't like it at all but I wouldn't ask him not to do it. I can't come up with any good reasons other than it makes me feel bad about myself, and that's not a valid enough reason. So he watches it and I just don't want to hear about it.
If it makes you feel bad about yourself you might want to at least talk to him about it. That'd be a valid enough reason for me, lol.
Why would p*rn make you feel bad about yourself? Have you seen how stupid those girls act/are? Lol you shouldn't feel bad!
...That's definitely a valid reason.
Eh, before me, my boyfriend was into girls with fake boobs and blonde hair who dressed slutty. That is literally the opposite of who I am, so when I think of him watching p*rn, I imagine it involves girls who are everything I'm not. It makes me feel like I'm not enough sexually sometimes even though I've been assured that I am. We have talked about it and he thinks it's silly because I'm the longest relationship he has had and he loves me, blah blah blah. Gotta pick your battles.
If its just p*rn then thats fine but if its a specific girl that i know then id b upset. Masterbating is about the body not the person, so if there's a face then there's a problem
i would hate it.i wouldn't feel good enough if my man were to do that.
No. If he doesn't prefer to look at them instead of being with me, I don't care.
To p*rn. No. Your a guy, idc. To another girl in the same room FUCK NO. Guys are guys in respect that. So girls are girls respect our needs to
I'll give him whatever he wants physically and picture wise.. But no. I have no issue with p*rn.
That's awesome! He's lucky.
I wouldn't mind. It's not like I can have a monopoly over his eyes.
I mean, I realize it's going to happen just because that's been a part of his life since before me haha but it depends on a few factors like...if it's fetishy, inappropriate, weird, or if it interferes with our sex life.
Yes, but I'm not sure if I'd say anything about it.
No. I dont think I care. a lot of guys watch p*rn and it doesn't affect their relationship. p*rn is like a fantasy world...and that's about it.
Um yeah kind of. I feel like I, myself, am not enough for him that he has to find pleasure somewhere else.
Most men watch p*rn so I don't care. I just don't want them to mention what type or what p*rn stars they like and shit.
It's normal if he masturbates to p*rn. He can't get together with the p*rn stars anyway.. but if it's a girl he knows or a girl he met, I would not like it.
If he does it when I'm not around & doesn't effect our sex life. I don't want to know about it.
Nope, i dont nind one bit. Hehe sometimes i watch his p*rn while he's at work ;)
And do you masturbate to it?
No. I critique the sexual positions... lol of course i masterbate to it, but i get off more on the fact that i know he has gotten off to it, than the actual videos themselves.
That's so f-ing hot!
I guess not as long as he's not talking to them and if he doesn't tell me about it
Other women as in real ones he knows? Yes! p*rn? No.
Use it or lose it!
yes i mind :P
,,,, I do mind
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