I messaged friends with benefits last night to tell him I just couldn't do it anymore because I was starting to hurt when I had time away from kids and he was hanging with other people. I also told him I didn't think he was that much of a friend too. Me always there for him but him not for me. It was pretty long and heartfelt. He wrote right back and told we need to talk about this face to face. I have tried to talk to him in person but he just shuts down and freaks out and puts all my feelings back on me. I thought I could get everything I needed to say in a message. Then about 30 min he messaged again and said for real we need to talk. What do you think? Do u think he wants more now that I am about to shut it down?