I'm a virgin am I a slut?

Yes sometimes I send nudes to guys and it gets me off, does that make me a slut? Why do people keep calling me one? I'm shy and innocent in real life I'm just getting off.. wtf.. am I?


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  • Well there is gurls that do have sex but DON't Send nudes lol
    So not having sex doesn't mean you still can't be considereing 'slutty'

    It's probably the images. Sure in public you're shy but behind closed doors you want it bad lol and they know that cause you sending nudes

    That's why
    No kidding right lol

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    • Yeah, but now I feel shitty about myself.. because a guy called me a slut for doing it... maybe I'll stop then.

    • Ya just choose the guys properly
      Its ok to send nudes just either make sure you are somewhat friends with them or let it go

      people will always wanna put you down. You have to determine what is and what isn't

      It isn't slutty but it also isn't being good either lol
      Its the middle. But the middle is the best place to be

      So its fine :)

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  • Quit asking the same thing over and over again. LAME

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  • You are not a slut! If anyone labels you this way just let it run off your back. There is nothing wrong with needing to feel loved or needing to get some sexual stimulation to get your needs met. Sometimes being able to visually see a guy cum or being aroused helps to know that your body has an effect that way over him. Its the same way the other way around. Its very sexy and stimulating to see a girl's body being aroused or watch her cum. Some of the most arousing times I have ever had is to see a girl open her vagina so I can see inside and see her contract from orgasm. Its very educational and fascinating to see how the body of the opposite sex functions and how both bodies play a roll to stimulate the other whether visually, through physical stimulation, smell, or any of the other senses. Hearing how wet a girl is also can be very arousing. But please don't let anyone degrade you or label you a slut. Its perfectly normal to be curious and wanting to experience sexual things at this age. As long as both people are being respectful of the other and genuinely wanting to learn more about the other's body, there is nothing slutty about it.

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  • People are entitled to think whatever they want, just as you are entitled to think what you want. What people think of you cannot change who you are or what you are worth, unless you allow them to.
    This is your life to live. At the end of the day you are the only person who needs to approve of your own choices.
    Live your life without worrying about other people’s thoughts and opinion, and you will live your life to the maximum.

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    • Remember whatever people say about you, is their own insecurities talking. remember all these people saying shit about you, why should you care? they are normal people, they are nothing special, you don't have to do anything to impress them.
      If people call you a slut, its ok, if people call you a lesbian its ok, if people call you a whore, its ok. That's just their own insecurities talking.
      There is saying, when we say bad things about others, we don't define them, we define ourselves.
      Whenever someone says something bad about me, I just say, that's fine, your entitled to your opinion.

  • A slut doesn't have to be about having sex. Just exposing your private areas can be counted as well. Basically many guys have seen you naked and that's as good as sleeping around. And not many girls do this so even if you tell people you are a virgin, they wouldn't believe it since you send nudes.

    Maybe find other ways to get off, and slowly recover your rep.

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  • You are not a slut. Many women exchange nudes. It is a bit of sexual enjoyment without the dangers of STDs, pregnancy, etc. You do take a risk with your pictures getting out, but if you are careful you can prevent any connection to you with a nameless photo of a body. I will say safer to not do it, but as I just mentioned, there are things that make it desirable. If you still enjoy it with people you trust and want to continue, I would say go ahead. As you say, it is fun.

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  • Why do u do this. Why not find a boyfriend and have real sex instead of sending nudes to guys?

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    • You're right, I'm gonna stop.. I am going on dates with guys so maybe I'll meet someone.

    • I assume you must like your body and feel pretty comfortable showing them. At least thats a good thing, but its questionable behavior. I wouldn't be so quick as to call you that tho.

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  • yes it does

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  • I don't think you're a slut

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