My boyfriend has been having trouble staying hard during sex. It takes him a long time to get hard and when he does he normally goes soft right as we start having sex. He tells me that it is hard for him to see me as a sex object because he loves me too much. The other night he didn't even want to try having sex instead he tried to get me to go to sleep saying I must be tired when really I was wide awake. I don't know if he is just embarrassed because he hasn't been able to get hard recently and now it is just in his head making him worry or if he just isn't into me anymore.