I'm not really looking for a boyfriend right now I would like to focus on my studies. I just want like a couple of guy friends and that's it, nothing special. I decided to take a break from dating because I was something that is serious and I want a relationship that will last up until marriage. I don't want any fun and games in a relationship. And I don't want just some boy, I want a gentlemen. I don't want a boyfriend now because I haven't found the right guy in my life. I want a relationship that is real and serious. Someone that isn't afraid to show that they love me of course and value me. I've decided to take a break from dating since I am in high school I might date again when I go to college
Good decision.I'm older than 'under 18' so i'd like 1 now but again, it seems it's easier for girls to get attention than guys i think.At least your not short of offers for when you change your mind. :)
I'm done settling for less than what I deserve that's for sure, my ex treated me like dirt who was my first boyfriend and now we don't say anything to each other. At least though I know what I want and what I deserve. I'd only date someone who is probably 18 I'm 17 turning 18 next month (: I settled for less in the past but now I'm done with that. I feel like a lot of guys in my high school are immature and don't know what they want
I just can't tell with these girls. I have too many girls that are just so friendly and i don't want to take the risk and ask out any of them and be wrong.
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Defo! I feel that its difficult to meet a decent/genuine guy especially after my last relationship-he did the motions of a 'hey I'm a decent guy' but all he wanted was sex, glad I didn't put out.
sorry 2 hear that, im glad, even tho your a stranger, that u did not put out, i'd like to think more of u exist. :), no lie..at least your getting offers tho, :)
Ha! thanks! not decent offers though, in my experience it seems to be the guys who are the whores-sleeping with anyone and everyone-so off putting! Yes decent girls exist, yeah he tried ever so hard to sleep with me-it was kinda funny in that sense!
Just goes to show you, women hold all the power, ;)
I don't have a bf simply because I haven't found the right guy, but if we exclude that the main problem with me is that I'm too shy and as I look quite good boys think that I'm arrogant
Like i say to the other user, you have no problem getting offers, so you could if you wanted, get a bf whereas i cannot get any female attention to even get to the stage of seeing if she's the right 1.:(
yes, because i can't find the right guy lolbut as for recently i myself am a mess and can't drag someone with me to that lol
I see so you can easily get male friends its just that you dont have a relationship type?Gotcha.Your 1 step ahead of me, i cannot get a female friend to begin with.
ea i guess you can say so lol dont get me wrong i would LOVE a relationship right now but i know i shouldn't lolsometimes when a guy is too eager to have a gf or something (even if he doesn't show) girls can sometimes tell lol maybe you're sending these vibes lol
why not? you feel the relationship wudnt last?not that at all, im usually sitting alone so.. make of it what u will. lol
Very difficult. I think because it's luck if you find the right person to be your bf/gf, because you're in the right place at the right time. Say you were supposed to catch a train but had to miss it because you'd left something at home, and so got a different one. The love of your life could have been on the first train, the one you missed. Maybe it's the romantic in me, but that's the way I see it.
It's not difficult at all but I'm not looking for one at the moment.
Lucky you, lol. :)
Yeah, it's pretty tough for me because I don't meet and chat with many girls. Plus, the ones i do find and chat with don't like me like that. it's hard or a guy. Much easier for a girl in my opinion.
For a guy**
Damn near impossible. I want to find an attractive laid back gamer with a twisted sense of humor. Those type don't stay single long.
I wouldn't say itss difficult. I just never bothered asking a girl out. and thos that did show interest saw that I was intereted in a relationship so they never approached me.
Yes, because I have trust issues, BUTI really want to work on myself and my education right now above all.
No, I've always found it very easy to get one when I wanted.
yes and no, It's not difficult to get a boyfriend, but it is a pain in the ass to date.
Nope, never had a boyfriend. I chatted with lots of guys and also hung out with many, but the ones I've really liked I've chatted a lot with, but it never leads to anything more. I just think "Hm, okay, maybe he likes me," blabla, but after a few days the texting just stops, so I don't want to text him at all times because then I think I would look desperate, and of course, I don't know how he sees things, but that's how I feel and when he doesn't text me I don't feel like text him if we haven't chatted or talked for a while.
Not so much for this moment.Because I know I haven't put so much efforts on connecting with girls.
He "someone" is easy, but getting the "proper one" is hard.
I thi nk difficult to find someone with the personality I am looking for
Finding the right guy is the problem.
Yes, I'm quite picky.
i'm single but i don't want a partner
yeah... cuz girls dont find me attractive
I don't know where to meet single girls.
No, having too much fun.
yes but no idea why
Yes, its difficult to find a boyfriend. Im not a 100 % sure what the main reason its difficult, but i belive its a mix between: - Guys only wanting sex- Im not intresting enough- Im to shy and unsecure- I only get approached at barsAnd i can't meet guys at my work, because they are either women in their 30++, or older guys, like the guys that give me attention or men in their 30-40, an they dont approach me either. I m going to uni soon, so maybe i will find someone there, who knows?
Yes i do! Ugh, probably because i work too much and don't go out to the bar and don't have many friends anymore. HA.
Yes I do. Why? ... Uh, I don't know it just is?
Finding a bf? No, a lot of people like me and ask me out even popukar guysFinding someone I really want as a bf? Impossible. I haven't dated anyone because I have my eye on someone who doesbt love me back
Yes, most guys I encounter want a friends with benefits relationship instead of something meaningful.
yeah, like, of course, THAT is what would be good but also to hang out with and go places with, this is what i want anyway but if girls aren't gonna give u the chance, what do you do, you know?It's difficult i guess. :)
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