I don't think I've ever had an intelligent, good looking and popular person be friends with me out of a belief that I could benefit them. Most of them almost always talk to me out of pity. This might be the first time in 8 years where somebody talked to me because they thought I had something to offer them and not because they felt sorry for me. I feel SUPER uncomfortable around her and I find myself physically attracted to her even though she is married. What do I do?