What is it with this "emotional affair" nonsense?

what's wrong with a guy and a girl in relationships with other people confiding in each other? it's the same as a guy confiding in his guy friends and the girl confiding in her girl friends. what's the big deal?
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what if one of them are single, does that make a difference?
What is it with this "emotional affair" nonsense?
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