I think that any man that I want badly enough and deserve to be with is a man that God will give me if I pray hard enough or even if I want it bad enough and that person is single - unattached and childless and a good person who will treat me well etc... I say this from experience. Every time I think about somebody such as associating a song I listen to a guy I know - I will keep running into that person during the rest of the week. It's happened 4-6 times so far!!! maybe more that I've lost count of. The problem is I don't have a target because all the guys I find attractive are younger than me. I am not an environment where I get that many opportunities to meet guys my age.