if you try and get him to settle down its going to backfire, if he doesn't see he needs to settle down on partying he's not going to.
I don't understand
if he thinks your forcing him to settle down and not party , the plan of you wanting him to settle will backfire ie he might leave, a guy isn't gonna change if he doesn't think or acknowledge that there's a problem
Yeah you right. No pressure!!
thank you for mh
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How much partying and drinking? I'd say by 29 he's way overdue to slow down or completely quit.However I'll also say that bringing up all the time with him might be counter productive. He'll quit when he's ready. If it's a deal breaker, then leave him. Otherwise you'll just have to deal with it until / if he quits on his own. If he's still drinking a lot at 29 I wouldn't hold your breath though.
You shouldn't be partying anyways, but its your life people who party usually go there to get drunk or just to smoke and hook up, but its your life.
I'm 20. I'm actually talking about my boyfriend, he's the smoker, drinker, and party person, not me
Its going to hit you when you are only getting older and the crowd gets younger.
I'm 20. My boyfriend 29, he's the one that I'm talking about
He will eventually go through what I just stated.
And what was that? If you don't mind me asking Im2Creative
They just change bars. I know people who are in their 40's and still party. They hit up different venues that cater to the older crowd.
At least they should be more mature about what they do
Sounds like the problem between you two is trust and not necessarily his activities.I just wouldn't be we someone whom I couldn't trust, simple as that.
It's up to the individual with what he/she wants to do. You don't own them, and any attempts will just make them run farther away from you.
why he should settle down... there's no age when you "should" settle down
I see no problem with it. The way 18-20, 21-24, 25-29 year olds party is quite different.
He should do what's in his rational self-interest.
i think it really depends!!! there are diferent types of partying.there is:1 - just meeting a couple of friends at a local small bar/pub (or even someones home) and having a couple of drinks, wich i think would be ok.2 - going the the big mainstream clubs with just pop music, where its just drunk people trying to hook up, wich i think would be not ok, and3 - the more underground partys, where mostly the only people that go, are there mostly for the music... not looking for hookups or to get hammered. in those you tend to see all ages, wich i think is pretty cool, just people wanting to have a good time. those i obviously find okhowever if he's single, number 2 would also be ok
No he not single
Hellz nah. I'll be partying when I'm 30+. I went through a lot of hurdles in my life, I deserve some more fun!
Yes, agree its time for him to settle down 👇
Yes, I agree too!!! I feel like he has to party and drink just to have a good time...
Hopefully he understand stand you.
I'm hope he does. Cause I really want him to settle down :)
Time to settle down, in my opinion.
I agree. %100
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