Unfortunately I just don't. O. oI'm kind of socially awkward. I get social anxiety too. Which is strange because I know I'm funny and everyone likes me (which I didn't know until one of my friends told me that everyone always asks about me and that everyone new always loves me when they meet me)...But... anxiety... it's deadly. :/I think that the easiest way to meet new people is through mutual acquaintances - and a better version - through friends.
Yeah definitely sucks! I'm funny too but takes a little bit for me to be that way, I gotta know you. With friends of friends, I'm just chill, just kinda sit back
lmao its simple GO FISHING and you'll meet all kinds of people ^^hell most people are looking to make friends who fish at the same spots as them
I usually avoid people, other than who I'm with, when I fish... Lol I'm weird
lmao i try to do the same thing man but they'll come sit near me and small talk >> lolol. before i know it we've become friends talking. when is the next time you're going to be at the river/park is the common question we're asked lolol
is the most*sit near me while trying to small talk*become friends*
Haha nice. We have a pass for a state park beach that we can get into when no one else is really out
lmao ain't no telling where you gone see us at ^^ and nicewe like the river because we can SNAG in peace. but its a bitch getting them from the water because there is a rocky hill that is super steep >>
That must suck. Don't have many rivers in Florida lol so I stick to beach and am working on finding a boat to buy
hell yea since most of those fish seem to be on steroids on top of having "roid rage" once we snag them ^^ things can get hectic. one dude feel in the river before and got cut up >>
Haha ouchhh. Plenty of rocks here too. Had one fish one time that just rannn with the line and my finger got caught against the line and got sliced
now im saying ouch because the same thing has happened to me in the sense of a line cutting me ewwww and it burned loli got the fish though ^^
So @mistninja314 are you a "master baiter"?
yea and also a "master de baiter" come at me big bro lo @gapminderi just cast my fishing rod to see if they bite, throw back all the ones i dont need or don't like-joker the bailbondsman lololol
I hear you man. But seriously I do miss real fishing, it's almost spiritual. Much needed in this crazy ass world.
lmao i know right + you meet all type of characters while fishing. ya got thugs, rednecks, old heads, Asians, arabs, gamers i think ya get the point ain't no telling what type of person you gone meet that day or talk about @gapmindereveryone is so friendly ^^
That's true, I never met an angry angler.
i have while playing my ANCHOR BOX 360 lolol @gapminder
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GaG, library, random shit when I'm high, random shit when I'm not high, buying fruit, eating maple syrup, listening to Wavves, telling random girls "You look so cute with this air around you"
lol, if a random guy came up to me and said that, I don't know how I'd react.
@thewanderingme"You look so cute in this light, do you want to be in my movie about Jehovah's Witnesses that open a weed shop?"
::runs away, never to be seen again::;)
My mind will go blank too. I think it's because I overthink. Just say whatever. Seriously, talking about pointless random shit is actually better than not talking at all, sometimes.
True true. I liter rally don't even have thoughts other than think of something to say. I can compliment someone on something but I only get a simple response like thanks back.
Breaking the ice often takes several attempts. Expecially in situations where people don't expect to be spoken to. Just keep trying. Talk about the weather. Whatever. I have literally spoken off the top of my head to a complete stranger, and that almost made it go better than anything, because I was just saying random, spontaneous stuff, instead of awkwardly trying to say something cool.It comes down to practise. Having cool conversations is for the highly skilled. To get there, the rest of us have to practise, practise, practise.
Lol yeah this is true
For example i go to a course, when i see new people there, i say hi, how are you, for me its the way how i start a conversation. :)
Lol I can barely strike a convo with my friends. I'm more of the person in the background watching how people react and are
I understand. But you should give it a try. You should take heart, and not be afraid of talking to people. Nothing wrong with it. You can continue to talk if you think they are nice, if not you can end the convo.:)
I can talk to people, somewhat anyway. It's more that I have nothing to say, and they don't continue the conversation. Plus I'm rarely around people my age anymore nor do I really go do much that involves a bunch of people.
Why are you getting angry with me? haha joke:)Well you could continue to ask some more, but i guess it should be mutual... I think if you and other person want to talk, it will continue by itself :)
I guess no body wants to talk to me then! Hahah kidding, kinda :p
hahaha :) Yeah i think you are kidding :P :)
Maybe.. Lol I'm not the other people so technically I can't say haha
I'm sorry i didn't get what you mean by "i am not other people so technically ", well English is not my native language, so i sometimes can be in trouble to understand people, sorry for that :)
Lol that's alright, even people who are native to English , don't understand English haha. I just meant that I'm not the person I try to talk to so I can't say for sure that they would or wouldn't want to talk to me, if that makes any more sense?
hahaa well i chatted with many American people, they also said to me that most people in there dont speak really good, i was surprised to hear that. :)Yeah thanks for making it clear, now i did understand :)So you can talk to me then. haha i am kidding:)Well that's no problem, leave it to time, when you feel you are comfortable with, you and the other person will talk to each other by itself.. :)
Yeah. Thanks haha. And as far as Americans I think we just don't speak proper English is what it really comes down to. We have too much slang and whatnot
So are you American?And you are always welcome :)Yeah i am aware of that most people use slangs a lot.. I respect people but i dont like slangs. They make convesations not comfortable. I think so :)
Yes I am :)
i said you are always welcome, so you mean yes you are always welcomed? haha i am kidding, i understand you mean that you are American.:)
Say hi, how your doing? Do those shoes com in your size? Jk just study a person and ask any question you want.
I can read people pretty good. But when I try to talk to someone my mind literally goes blank. The question was mostly out of curiosity more than anything though
In person usually randomly or social events (I avoid)
@ihav2fart what do you avoid?
@thewanderingme social events when I know it's gonna be a pain in the ass for me later
hmm, interesting. 0. O
usually through mutual friends or room mates.
depends on the place
i just break the ice
Good for you! I wish I could but my mind just goes absolutely blank when I try to talk to people. Even with my friends
I kiss them^^
Well that would certainly get someone's attention
Yeah coz when u kiss someone she said wtf who r u and i said that's I'm someone who wanna meet u :) That's all simple ya?
Haha or you get slapped...
I dont think they can resist to my kiss! :)
Haha that special eh?
Yeah ofc madam :)
a lot of fun but dangerous :)
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