These do not work for me what so ever. Only ever had one date off of pof, and her pic was way more appealing than the real thing. I am only really looking to hook up, and my less good looking friends say it is so easy. But I never know what to say to get that ball rolling. Seems like every girls description says no hookups what so ever, looking for relationship. Should I just be honest and say exactly what I want? Or do I lie?