Nopes, was always Le victim at school lolbut... There was this girl I used to really fancy when I was like...10... so I threw a rock at her... young nate logic lolThat count?
Yeah that counts man just look at Helga and Arnold lol.
My mum always said guys are nasty to you when they like you (like primary school age obviously), I guess she was right ;)
Yeah, but not really. One time a girls took my crayons so I said she was stupid and ugly. Apparently I got in trouble for it
I once got in trouble for "stealing" another girl's crayon. We had the same color and she lost hers, so she took mine. When I tried to get it back, she start bawling her eyes out and the teacher made me give her my crayon. That girl always got what she wanted; all she had to do was cry.
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Absolutely not. I know all too well how that feels.
No way.Not in my character.If anything I would always defend those who were bullied.I also was a victim of it myself for many years.Although I couldn't handle it then... it shaped and molded me into the person I am today.I hardly care about other peoples opinions and I have learned to love myself even more (and not to look for approval in others).
That's great :)
No, at least not that I am aware of. I was usually the one who was being bullied until I finally learned how to stand up for myself. I know how bullying feels, I would never want to make anyone else feel that way.
How did you stand up for yourself?
I just learned to not let other people bother me anymore. When someone tried, I told them off and when they figured out that they're words didn't phase me anymore, it eventually stopped.
That's good :) having a strong friend circle helps prevents being bullied too.
Yeah, that's true. I've never been the type to have very many friends though.
That's okay :) having fewer is less of a headache anyways :D.
Lol yes, that's very true :)
I never bullied anyone... I was on the receiving end when I was really young but I grew up and it seemed insignificant. I think it's a necessary thing to go through... the whole thing about getting back up no matter how many times people push you down. It's unfortunate people can't handle it and it results in negative outcomes.
Yeah it sucks :(
Yeah I understand that it sucks... especially for guys who don't talk about what's happening in their lives.But I don't regret the past, it got me to become the man I am today :)
Yeah Same here me being bullied made me stronger in a way, but some of it just made me feel weaker like when I was in 7th grade we were on this field trip and when to this big park to like pick nick and hike, but these 3 bullies all decided to bully me they all picked up small hard rocks and throwing it at me constantly I was bleeding everywhere in my face I was crying I was barely able to run away and I didn't even tell anyone. I just felt emasculated and scared
Wow that's extreme... I'm sorry you had to go through that. They say people who bully are usually going through some bad things at home and are projecting onto others. You're most likely way better off than them at this point in your life.
Yeah that's true the one guy who was throwing rocks at me he died last week at 22 from drug overdoes I didn't feel bad for him at all. And thanks :)
There you go... that goes on to prove my point. I wouldn't be happy that he died but for me to feel bad for him would be close to impossible.
Yep justice was served :)
Yes, I have. In the 4th grade I made a boy in my class cry and I felt terrible for it. I was hanging out with the wrong crowd. In the 5th grade, I gave a kid a bruise the size of a sand dollar from kicking him. I was, again, hanging out with the wrong crowd. In the 7th grade, I helped to shun a girl from my friends group table - we all didn't speak to her and filled the table up so she couldn't sit down because it was our way of telling her that we didn't want her in our group any more. I was, once again, hanging out with the wrong crowd. I have been bullied all of my life. From basically kindergarten. I never intentionally bullied someone. As soon as I realized that I had gone too far and was losing myself and who I really was which IS a nice person, I stopped hanging out with the people that made me that way. I was good at leaving friendships when I realized that they were not healthy for me. This was one of the reasons why I was always picked on. People didn't like that I knew how to stand up for myself and wasn't afraid to when I needed to. I am not afraid to admit that I was a bully at one point or another. I hope that people don't judge me and say that I deserved to get bullied just because of what I have done to others. I rarely have bullied people, but the few times I did, I always realized that I was changing into someone I didn't want to be. Even my family could see it. I've always been a troubled kid and never really hung out with the right crowd. As soon as I realize that I'm being a bully, I take immediate action to stop it from going any farther.
>.> All these people saying they haven't bullied anyone. I don't think they understand what it is.I wouldn't say I was bullied when I was a kid ( I was picked on and made fun of and did get in a few verbal and physical fights though). Some people may consider that to be bullied, but I don't. I did the same back to people. So some might consider that I was a bully too.People seriously need to chill the fuck out about this bullying crap. We all get bullied and we all are bullies, it's life.
Not everyone has been bullied or has bullied someone I know a few people who were like that.
Honestly, I really doubt that. Bullying comes in all forms and is not the stereotypical wedgie or being shoved in a locker.Even the 'nicest' people I've encountered I've seen them do awful things. Especially when I was younger (middle school age). It's an age where children can get away with pretty gruesome stuff, where the kind of behavior should be penalized and not just have a phone call to the parent or worse case be suspended (*eyeroll*).But hey maybe you are fortunate, maybe those people you know really haven't been bullied or bullied anyone... All I know, is I've been exposed to that kind of behavior all to frequently in different contexts (even in workplaces, a hierarchy is evident) to believe there are those who have not been bullied/ are/were bullies.
Your right most people have bullied at some point in their lives.
Yeah, I guess you could say I did a little. I got picked on and made fun of a lot through elementary school so when I got to middle school I attempted trying to be meaner. It didn't work. Like at all. Lol. I was horrible at being mean and it ended up backfiring and making me more self conscious than I already was. I spent my entire 8th and 9th grade years crying and never talking to anyone after that!
That's not bullying. That's sort of a defense mechanism and the effect of what you went through. The same happened to me.
Nope i would never bully anyone but i have got justice againstpeople who bullied me.
Same here :)
Yes, when I was a kid, like 7 y/o more or less, I was kind of a bully, and a racist too. I'm not proud of that, I'm proud that I managed to get away from that, from thinking that way, to where I am right now.
O yea back in grade school, but then I got bigger and stronger. It hasn't happened since then though, people who know me personally know that if you give me grieve then I'm going to have to break something. And if I see someone getting bullied I take the bulky out.
Hell yeah I do. I bully people everyday and I'm talking about grown people. I find the witty banter hilarious especially when they can't think of anything to say.
Nope , i absolutely hate seeing people getting bullied , its just sad and seeing no one helping them is even worse i always try to help as best as i can 😃
When I was in kindergarten I scribbled on a kid's drawing with a black crayon and when I was in seconde grade I made fun of a girl's pigtails.
I bullied my bully, and recently is mock trail, I bullied against the opposition shutting then down
Honestly? No. I have always been the one who got the harassment. lolI used to get harassed for being too pale.
Oh ya. Quite a few times in school. I'm certainly not proud of it though.
At least you admit it.
Not since I was 11. I've criticized and condemned people before but I don't think of that as bullying because they deserve it.
Yes i was but i changed and my uppance dix and continues to Côme and i will grin and bearer it till the end of days beacause the concept of karma is not lost on me. its possible to change
I have a hard time believing anyone who answered no. We've all had enemies come and go in our lifetimes. I can't expect nobody has ever not made of that enemy constantly, and attempted to humiliate them time after time. I've bullied before. Am I proud of it? Absolutely not. However, I understand there's a fine line between teasing, picking on, and downright bullying.More recently, I was a recent victim of bullying by my employer. Deliberately late paychecks, underpaid wages, being taken off the schedule for 2 weeks without reason or contact, then fired without explanation. That's why they're now in trouble with the state labor board.
Probably. I have been bullied more so. At school, work & church.
No, I never bullied anyone. On the contrary, I was bullied on 7th grade.
When I was younge at school almost everyone bullied and was bullied. So, yes.
Yup, in 6th grade mostly. I ended up despising bullies though. Got in a lot of fights because of it.
Yup, but the people that i was a bitch to were douchebags first so whatever
No. When i get to be a ceo, I'll probably be doing a lot of it to lazy people.
Yes when I was in primary school.. I made my cousins cried
Would you believe me if I said no?
I'd have no other choice, but to take your word for it so yes.
I haven't intentionally bullied anyone but I may have. I don't know.
Tell the story
Does it count as bullying if I was punking on a kid freshman year of high school after he tried to bully me?
I don't know that's a though one how did he try to bully you?
I was a really scrawny freshman in high school, he tried to take my cell phone and asked me to give my money to him... I wasn't gonna take that crap.
Nope not bullying at least not in my book :)
Nope never, but i was bullied a lot before
Nope honestly never did
No, I dislike being mean and hated.
I haven't bullied anyone to my knowledge.
I'm too nice to do that.
Yes, and I'm ashamed of it. If I ever see the guy I would apologize.
I don't hit people without a valid reason. My answer is no; I've never bullied someone.
Bullying is not just physical its verbal too.
I know, I rarely speak or talk
Yes, in kindergarten there was a girl who would hit me and even bite me. But she never got in trouble for it, even though I told on her. The teacher and even the principle wouldn't do anything about it.
No you misread the question have you ever bullied someone?
Oh! Whoops! Sorry. :No, I have never bullied a person, but I admit I've been mean to my dog, which is far worse because animals are so defenseless.
No, but I endured it from 3rd grade through high school lol.
I can relate to that I got bullied a lot in 3rd grade.
Everyone who says they haven't bullied someone, somehow, sometime, is lying.
No, not my character and so against bullying
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