Personally, I wouldn't have sex with anyone I wasn't in a close relationship with so hopefully the single mother scenario wouldn't be an issue.If it was, I really don't know what I would do. I think I'd be unwilling to have an abortion and would probably plan to put it up for adoption. But then I might change my mind after it was born and not want it to leave.On the other hand, I might be terrified of all the changes and pain caused by 9 months of pregnancy and then childbirth and have an abortion.Honestly, I've no idea what I'd do. It's an extremely personal decision and that's why I believe women should have a choice. Also, fair play to women who do raise kids on their own and I don't judge those who have abortions.The only thing I wish was different would be that men had some kind of similar chance to choose.
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If I had a one night stand, it would be well protected and plan b used, if the condom broke. Never gotten pregnant, so not an issue.However, if for some reason I did get pregnant, I would abort it without a second thought.I'm in no way ready to be a parent and bringing a child into the world at this point of my life would be extremely foolish.
Pregnancy can happen no matter how careful you are. You can "do everything right" and still end up in a frustrating position. I know I don't want and probably shouldn't have kids so I'd get an abortion.
Realistically that's quite a lot of assumptions to get to the worst case scenario. Why can't you give it up anyway?Well, i wouldn't get an abortion, cause I'd be an awesome single mum. Seriously, I'd kick ass Sarah Connor style! I also have an amazing family, so i'd have heaps of support. But regardless of that, I know it would be hard but i'm capable of handling it.
Uhhh first of all I wouldn't have a one-night stand.and if I got pregnant I would keep the baby. I'm rock solid bitchhhbut obviously if I got pregnant I would be concerned that I am the next Virgin Mary. :O
No. I would never put myself in that position in the first place. My family doesn't believe in abortion (especially since I have a 1 year old brother and a bunch of baby cousins)
I wouldn't have a one night stand in the first place.Anyway if I got pregnant by mistake, I'd keep it and try to raise it as best as I can.
Since we're speaking in hypotheticals cause this would definitely not happen to me... no. Unless, of course, I knew for sure that the baby would have some type of serious disorder, then I would have to think about it. :-(
Abortion is immoral, you can give the child up for adoption if you don't feel you can give the child a good life.
Simple. No one-night-stands and use protection and you're good. I wouldn't get an abortion because if I were to get pregnant it'd be by my husband, not someone I barely know.
I wouldn't do a one night stand. And if I did get pregnant I would keep it.
No i would not. its a living part of you. its cool.
from a one night stand? i would probably wonder how freaking stupid i was being to manage to get pregnant from a one night stand! i would probably have an abortion because i couldn't bring a baby into the world into that kind of situation and life, it would be so unfair. however, if it was with my boyfriend, i'm not 100% sure honestly. i'm in medical school so i don't think i could handle a child right now so it would probably be best to abort but i'm not sure i could ever live with the guilt. i would feel awful and always wonder about that child and what kind of person it could have become.
since all these other girls are saying they would never let that happen, i'm going to add in that i wouldn't either. i thought this was purely meant as a hypothetical. but i am careful so like... there's a 99% chance i won't be in this situation either...
I've never done casual sex and will never be interested in it so for sure I'm not going to get pregnant by a random anytime soon.If there is a slim chance I would be pregnant even with protection and pills used... it would only be within a relationship. Still, I don't want kids, never had those urges to and more than likely will not provide enough love that child needs. I would like to think that if there is no other option then yes, giving the child up for adoption will be something I will do.I can tell you one thing. If I raise the child, both the child and I will be miserable. Is that really fair at all? I can't imagine raising a child I never wanted and they are more than likely going to resent me for bringing them into the world for nothing.
Some women were just never meant to be mothers, no matter how much you try convincing them about the wondering gift a child brings and so on.
No. I wouldn't even put myself in that position.
If I were, then I'd never have sex with anyone I find insecure and crazy before marriage.
I am more responsible than to get knocked up, but if the accident happened, what I would do would depend on where I was in my life.Right now, I would get an abortion right away, whitout a doubt. But if I where in my early 30'ties I would probably keep it. But still, it would depend on what I was doing with my life at that moment.
I'm not against abortion by any means but I only think I'd actually have one if it was a child of rape. if it was a consensual one night stand then yes, I would keep the baby or consider adoption.
If I was a girl? Based on the assumption this is down to a contraceptive failure of some sort I wouldn't have an abortion. I personally see it as murder. I understand and sympathize with why people do it, but that doesn't change my view. Ultimately there are too many irresponsible people having sex these days.
Probably yeah. I'd never be in that position but yeah. I don't want kids ever.
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