I have had this friend for 10 years. Her last love interest was emotionally abusuve to her. She met one of my guy friends and they hit it off. She pushed him away because of her anxiety. I ignored her after too because I felt bad that I had introduced them and he ended it with her for having depression. I would lie to her about being busy and continue my friendship with him. 3 months later I became single and this guy and I started dating. My friend was furious. We didn't plan it. I can't help how I feel for him so I chose him over my friendship with her. She flipped. Isn't she the selfish one here.