Just be nice to everyone, make jokes often, help people whenever you can, don't let others pick on you. I spent most of my school years being an asocial smartass nerd and I regret that, on my last year I was more of a funny, easy going nerdy guy and I had more fun and made many friends.
But what if you are already nice to everyone and people still don't respect you?
What do you mean by respect? Are people being disrespectful towards you? Do they hit you, take your stuff or something like that? Then you should either tell teachers or face them yourself. Do you mean respect like you were some mafia boss then I don't know how to help you haha.
No neither of those haha. I'm saying that people like to tease me a lot and I feel people talk behind my back. I want to be respected like all my other friends.
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Just joke around and don't take shit seriously that often. This one kid is always serious and tries to demand respect from people, which always makes him get less respect, and made fun of more. Just don't take shit seriously.
I don't take shit seriously, but I feel as though people don't respect me.
Bully back those who bully you. Don't touch the innocent. (:
If I bully back people who bully me won't I lose respect?
You would to some, and you wouldn't to some. Friend, you can't gain everybody's respect as every individual has a different set of principals and convictions.If you bully only those who have had hurt you before, you would gain respect from many for standing up for yourself. As long as you don't go around being the big and bullying innocent people, it is fine. As to my knowledge, bullies don't command much respect. If you bully assholes only to protect yourself, then you won't be seen as a bully but one who is no push-over.
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