Yeah. I went to a bar to meet my buddy. He didn't show cuz his wife wouldn't let him out of the house. I felt like such a loser there by myself. So I left.
Thats why I dont go out alone to movies and bars and eating out
It was the only time we didn't meet up beforehand. And haven't been to a bar since. That was about 9 years ago
so if you saw me sitting on my own at a bar would you think i was a looser?
No. Lonely maybe. But not a loser. Maybe approach if your body language gave the ok. If not I'd let you be. If you saw a guy sitting alone at the bar, what would you think?
don't think i would give it a second thought to be honest
I'll go to see bands alone. as far as parties, do you mean you don't know anyone there or just show up alone?
just showing up alone
oh, sure not an issue for me, as long as I know people who'll be there.
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I did and I will. Last time I went ended up having party with girls so I would again and again :)
did you go to a bar or a club or did you go to a party? Was it planned to go by yourself?
It was after work. No wasn't planned. I went to bar for an hour then night club. Met these 3 girls then had party with them in their place :) sometimes best to not plan anything and just go with your feelings
oh :) its going to be a party tonight at a club/bar thing in comparison with the university, but i have no one to go with. I'm still planning to go through...
Well if you are not far from me I can come with you lol Just go don't scare of it. Once you get there just walk in slowly and look around a few minutes then by the time you get a drink someone would be talking to you already. Then the rest will come :) Good luck!!! Have fun :)
well i live in Norway... but you are welcome to join me anyway ;) lol and thanks!
I wish I could :) I live in the UK :)
Bar? Sure. Stop off for a drink while out for a walk.Club? More intimidating. You need to have enough nerve to start talking to strangers.Party? Also intimidating. But why would you be invited to a party if you didn’t know anyone there?
Yup, and would happily do it again! I always end up meeting cool people.Going places alone is a different mindset and perspective.
C here. Not here in Greece though! People will stare at me as if I was an alien.
It felt great to be able to spend time on my own to enjoy things one can when alone.
where were you? club, bar? and was it planned to go on your own
Yes. And it was a bar, movie and the club, some times it's spontaneous just to get away from it all for a couple hours.
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