My boyfriend doesn't reply to me? why?

he doesn't reply to me on fb when I write him a message or write on his wall. I feel a little silly for asking this because we are both in our 20's and it seems silly because it is just fb. but in this modern world fb is another form of contact just like replying to a letter or to a text or an answering message. he replies to my texts and picks up when I call him. and he does text and call me. I'm just wondering if its a case of a thing that doesn't need a reply, or he is beginning to not acknowledge our relationship in public as such ?

i have told him my pet hate is disrespect and being ignored if I go to the bother to contact him in any form fb, sms , call etc I think it is polite to reply. he used to reply on fb all the time even to something that required no reply why the change is he very comfortable and does not feel the need, if so how do you show to someone just because it feels comfortable doesn't mean you need to stop doing the things you used to because I liked them


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  • you should ask him if he has access to FB outside of his home?

    • He doesnt, he has a phone with internet but its not as easily set up like the iphone app, and he has to pay for internet usage on his phone.

      may I ask why you asked this? :)

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    • Couldnt agree more, I think you're over analyzing the situation here...what makes you think he's on FB every single day... a lot of people just use it every now and then...i don't think he's str8 up disrespecting you, maybe he just doesn't use fb that often?

    • It prob comes across that way, he does go on fb everyday tho he tells me and he says he read them but does not elaborate further than that

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What Guys Said 2

  • It's the 21st century and social networking is another important medium of interaction. But I'm not on FB so I don't care as much.

  • Probably because you're annoying the hell out of him. I'd ignore you too.


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